so I was talking to this girl today(HB9) and when I thought things were going really good, i asked her out. got rejected!!! she told me she was into the nerdy and shy types????? i couldnt believe it. she also asked me at one point during our conversation "are you always this flirty with everyone?". i really didnt know how to take that because looking back on it, i KNOW for a fact i wasnt being overlly flirty. i think she took some ****y/funny things i said as flirty, i dunno. maybe since shes used to 4 eyed geeks sucking their thumbs in fear of talking to her that my humor came off as being flirty. it was just the weirdest rejection i have ever encountered in my life.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
this is a first
- Thread starter Robert28
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
BongDuy
Master Don Juan
thats a bummer. help a friendly nerdy amigo, and tell him to talk to her. lol
fertileTurtle
Master Don Juan
Yeah babe, I talk to my grandmother like this. What are you 12? This is how people who like each other talk. LOL."are you always this flirty with everyone?".
Hey man what's up. I live in SC too. A lot strange people around here when it comes to dating and pickup. She may be one of those sheltered church girl types? I don't know I guess she was saying you were too cool for her? I've never heard that kind of rejection before. It almost sounds like she liked you, but couldn't admit it to herself.
I've had chicks come up to me and start conversations and then just act like they don't like me, but still keep talking to me. It could be they just want an ego boost and by us acting needy and we aren't giving it to them. I probably would have pushed her for a straight answer if I gave a fvck.
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
Firstly , after the are you flirty questing , you don't need to come with a C+F line or anything. its a sh1t test and you just have to ignore it. Just start talking about something else , weather or whatever you want.
Also , another thing. Her being on nerdy guys is a bull fvcking sh1t in my opinion. You just couldnt attract her. Big deal. Move on.
Also , another thing. Her being on nerdy guys is a bull fvcking sh1t in my opinion. You just couldnt attract her. Big deal. Move on.
If a girl ever asks you... "Are you always this flirty etc."
Don't be fazed. Shake her **** test off. Tell her, "Nope, I wasn't even aware of being flirtatious. Why? Are you turned on?"
Then, get back to whatever you were talking about. Don't let the tension surface.
Don't be fazed. Shake her **** test off. Tell her, "Nope, I wasn't even aware of being flirtatious. Why? Are you turned on?"
Then, get back to whatever you were talking about. Don't let the tension surface.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
This response is hilarious, i'd be in stitches if you said this to me, its a good way to go.Allurre said:If a girl ever asks you... "Are you always this flirty etc."
Don't be fazed. Shake her **** test off. Tell her, "Nope, I wasn't even aware of being flirtatious. Why? Are you turned on?"
Then, get back to whatever you were talking about. Don't let the tension surface.
I think she was probably a bit of a prude and couldnt handle the conversation. What were you talking about anyway?