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This higher end HB in my neighborhood.

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So in my sub division two streets over there is a solid HB8.5 chick who looks to be about 19-22, very young who lives there.

Anyway, I see her out and about all the time. Usually riding her bike, or a the pool sun bathing. I mean I think she lives with her grandparents. I've talked to her a couple times briefly. Once when I was getting the mail she was there getting the mail too and I got her name and introduced myself. She seemed VERY bashful and giggled a bit and told me her name and that.

From what I've seen though from her and her interactions with others since I'm a people's watcher and my house is near the pool is that she does seem really shy and I don't see her talking to others at the pool. I mean, she seems more like an introvert and keeps to herself. Maybe she has a really shy personality, I dunno.

She seems really young though. I don't know what she does but I see her at the pool or riding her bike literally at all hours of the day so I don't think she goes to college or really works a lot and might be one of those young ones who just sit at home all day and don't work which is a red flag.

Anyway, she's solid HB 8.5 though and I never see her with any friends or guys at all which just seems odd at that young age. If I happen to have perfect timing again when I'm getting the mail or something what would be a good way to chat her up more and get her talking? I don't want to come off as the neighborhood creep to her so I can't make it obvious like that but how could I just chat her up in general? I mean it's probably obvious to her I like her because I asked what her name was and introduced myself. Girls are not that dumb.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Ask her where she works. That'll give you the answer to what she does and probably when she's free. Maybe some other questions to figure out her age. Like if she's taking classes or something. If she is, just ask how many years she has left. If she isn't.. welp you're gonna have to get creative.

Otherwise just invite her to do something casual just as you would any other time. If shes interested at all, shell accept the invite. Just like all the other girls. But idk, maybe it's worth waiting a bit on this one... Maybe the age difference makes her hesitant? Maybe you guys havent had enough interaction for her to be interested? Iono mate.
 

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Ask her where she works. That'll give you the answer to what she does and probably when she's free. Maybe some other questions to figure out her age. Like if she's taking classes or something. If she is, just ask how many years she has left. If she isn't.. welp you're gonna have to get creative.

Otherwise just invite her to do something casual just as you would any other time. If shes interested at all, shell accept the invite. Just like all the other girls. But idk, maybe it's worth waiting a bit on this one... Maybe the age difference makes her hesitant? Maybe you guys havent had enough interaction for her to be interested? Iono mate.
Only interactions was when I told her my name at the mail boxes and then when jogging I'd say hi. Otherwise that's it. I dunno. I like NEVER see her saying a word to anyone. Except if I jog by her house and she's outside I saw her talking to her grandparents a couple times but even then seemed pretty quiet. As I said, young, very hot looking and looks like a typical young college girl in her appearance and everything, but simply like never talks and I never see her smile. Only time was when I told her my name she smiled and that and talked softly. I mean, if it was a guy I would kind of think they had some sort of Autism or something. Usually young girls, even the introvert and shy type you still see them talking to people and smiling to an extent.

Sucks I live on the next street over though. They're better a second, larger pool and clubhouse with a gym in my sub division which is right by her house so I probably won't even see her much anymore in a couple months :( Maybe I need to go to the big pool and gym more then but it's always little kids and drunks hogging it on the weekends. I prefer the beach.
 

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Only interactions was when I told her my name at the mail boxes and then when jogging I'd say hi. Otherwise that's it. I dunno. I like NEVER see her saying a word to anyone. Except if I jog by her house and she's outside I saw her talking to her grandparents a couple times but even then seemed pretty quiet. As I said, young, very hot looking and looks like a typical young college girl in her appearance and everything, but simply like never talks and I never see her smile. Only time was when I told her my name she smiled and that and talked softly. I mean, if it was a guy I would kind of think they had some sort of Autism or something. Usually young girls, even the introvert and shy type you still see them talking to people and smiling to an extent.

Sucks I live on the next street over though. They're better a second, larger pool and clubhouse with a gym in my sub division which is right by her house so I probably won't even see her much anymore in a couple months :( Maybe I need to go to the big pool and gym more then but it's always little kids and drunks hogging it on the weekends. I prefer the beach.
Fvck all of that. If you see her you see her. Live your life. Don't go somewhere with the hope of seeing her. That's desperate.

Next time you run into her, whether that's in 10 minutes or next year, attempt to have a conversation and learn something about her. If she plays along well, meets your requirements, then ask her out. Don't complicate it.
 
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