"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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This has got to stop! Seriously.

horaholic

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Originally Posted by vagrant
Let's see, hmmm? What fun do jerks bring when it comes to a relationship with a woman? Hmmm? How about grabbing a woman by the waist and throwing her in bed, kissing her neck, tickling her belly, and smacking her booty.
What the hell does THAT have to do with being a jerk? Thats called being sexual. Its not a jerk quality. Sometimes, however, nice guys are afraid to be sexual, but it doesnt mean only jerks do that. Thats ridiculous.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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nismo-4 said:
Read betw- You can understand what was said here.
I love how people respond to an amazing thread like the one the OP posted, with "advice" that pretty much echoes what the OP say, and act like they are actually saying something way more advanced and that the OP is just hitting the tip of the iceberg. In fact, I know the number one rule in writing and communication is, less is more.
The better the writer, the better the philosopher, the less words they need to use to get their point across.

Great post vagrant.
 
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