"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

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this guy was touching a girl on my couch when she was past out.

MattS

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this girl and her friend were over my house last night and we all got drunk. i actually like the girl that this post is about. this guy was over who knows me and all my roomates, he was actually best friends with my roomate before but he just kept on getting to drunk and doin stupid sh1t so they stopped hanging out bascially.

we get drunk and the girl passes out on the couch. i pass out there along with her friend. the guy is sitting on the couch and drunk. i open my eyes and he has this crazy look on his face (he didnt know i was awake). he starts rubbing the girls azz and legs with this insane look on his face. it was the weirdest sh1t. he does it for like a minute. if i said something he probalby wouldve flip out on me and start sh1t with me. hes a big dude 6 2" about 220. if sh1t got really bad i would have no choice but to say something and face an altercation. anyways my roomate comes up stairs cause his gf told him to bring the girls down stairs. apparently she knew something was going to happen and so some crazy look on his face and was worried. when he came up the dude acted like he was sleeping. he took the girls downstairs and they went to sleep.

my roomate called me this morning and asked what happened blah blah blah. i told him and he said he talked to the girls friend first and mentioned something...i dont know if he straight up said the dude was touching your friend who was past out. when i was on the phone with him the girl called my roomate and i dont think he told her exactly what happened...i think he just said dude was being creepy etc but no details.

i texted her in the afternoon and said hey roomate told me xxxx was being shady/weird with you last night. just wanna make sure u r ok. 2 hours later she texts back and says yea im fine thank you. the fvcked up thing is that i dont think she realizes what exactly happened. i see this girl a lot her and her freind are always hanging out. i might see her tomorrow but i dont know if i should even say anything like did you know that dude was rubbing you when you were past out. shell probalby ask why i didnt do anything and i guess i could say i woke up for a second and saw it then my roomate came up right after. besides the point i just dont know if i should say anything or just wait to see if she asks me. yes i know hes not coming over anymore
 

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DonutMan

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( . )( . ) said:
Calm down Francis, some weirdo touches a chick while she sleeps?

Not the first time its happened and wont be the last. No need to turn it into an episode of Gilmore girls.

Unnecessary drama is not a skill you should be practicing. Like your big weirdo mate Lenny did "put it to bed" :p

LOL.......HAHAHAHAHA
 

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DJVladdy

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Matt, I wanna say:

chillax, bro - just chillax mah man. She'll survive, trust me
 
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