"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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This girls checkin me out?

VAboi

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Yea in one of my fav classes this girl sits way to the right of me. I sometimes see her looking at me and then she sometimes glances away. I cant really talk to her because, the teach set us up in groups. Any tips on what to do? Should I approach? Any tips or similar situations lay them On me. thanks
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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War Against Betaism

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Is she cute? You shouldn't come to quick conclusions because a girl was staring at you a couple of times (unless she does it excessively). I did this once and afterwards I found out she just had a staring problem.
 

Analyzeit

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Just approach her you got nothing to lose really. what i used to do when i went to a co-ed school (Now i go to all dude one OMG lol) I would always just try to make it obvious i was there like if we had to go to the front of the class i'd make sure i'd be the person she runs into when she turns round then say something like "watch out blah blah blah" maybe get a conversation if I'm lucky then and the end of class i'll make sure i ran into her tryna get out the door or something then i'd be like "geeze you tryna hurt me blah blah blah" and try get a conversation.

That was just one strategy i had for girls i couldn't talk to in class because of the seating plan or whatever it worked a few times aswell

Hope its a helpful little tip
 

Five To One

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This should be long term game for you because shes in your class and you have until the end of the school year to ask for the number.

You dont need to approach her or even say hi.
Work on getting eye contact with her.
This will let you know wheither she is interested, a girl keeping eye contact while smiling is as big of an IOI as they come.

It can be hard at the beginning because she will most likely avoid your eyes. She doesnt want to give herself away. Look at her and smile.

*****The best time to look at her and smile is right after you make a small wise crack during class. Why you ask? Because for a couple seconds after the joke everyone is looking at you. Everyone is smiling or laughing at you. Then bam, you look at her and laugh at your joke too. Both of you will be giving eachother eye contact and smiling. This lets her know that you may be interested. Of everyone in the classroom that you could of looked at, you looked to her for approval. She will pick up on this and encourage her to look at you more often.


-Give her eye contact when you enter the room
-Give her eye contact when something funny happens. When something funny is said, share the laugh with her by using your eyes.
-Give her eye contact when you see her in the halls

Be the mysterious boy who isnt afraid to look and smile but refuses to talk to her.
After a couple weeks of this be blunt and to the point. "hey lets hang out sometime girl."

-Get the number
-Call the number
-Get the date
-Fvck
-Done

It works because iv done it before and im currently doing it right now. Three girls in three different classes iv targeted and have been at it for a couple months now. The last week of school I make my move and get their numbers. I wait till the end of the year now because it can be potentially awkward depending on how things go and sucks when you have to see them in class the next monday.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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