"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Somedude8749

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so there is this girl at my school who i really like and she really likes me, but im scared to go out with her cause of what people would say. i think shes really attractive and cool, but my friends make fun of her a lot. i dont know what to do
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Quiksilver

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Tell your friends to go fvck a blender.

Then ask her out.
 

LostAndConfused

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Are they honestly your friends? Because usually when my buds go out with a girl we make fun of, we still give him *grief* of course, but we still love him (no homo). If they are your real friends, they'll respect your decision, they'll still be friends with you, and they might make fun of her from time to time. If you really have a problem with that, you might as well go home because there are bigger problems in life. I make fun of my friend's girlfriends all the time, we still are bros though. One of my friends Jack is going out with this HB7 who unfortunately has buck teeth, I always say jokes like:

"Does her teeth scrape your c0ck when shes suckin it?"

and stuff. He punches me and sh1t but we are still friends. It doesn't get between us AT ALL.

If they stop hanging out with you because of it, they werent your real friend sin the first place so they DID YOU A FAVOR by proving their not-worth.

nothing more really needs to be said.
 

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i know they will still be my bros but its just annoying catching **** from people, guess i should just say **** it and go out with her right?
 

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There was this good mobster movie I was watching one time and this young guy wanted to date a chick that he knew his friends wouldn't approve of.

The mobster guy he befriended was much older and wiser and said something along the lines of "Fvck em, they can't give you what she can give you, you can try and make them happy and they won't care about the emptiness you feel when you're alone at night with no one to hold you, to kiss you, to go places with you and make you feel like a man."

So yeah fvck what people think and do what makes you happy.

There is a very real possibility your friends are simply jealous that a girl they may secretly find attractive has taken such an interest in you.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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"Perfect is boring..."

Girls would rather have someone that is more humanly, than someone that is perfect. So go ahead and ask her, if it isn't perfect then the BETTER IT IS! Because PERFECT IS BORING!

Just say that before you do it.
 

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Just go for it man.

It seems like your friends might be just "teasing" her, making fun of her.(playfully) Hell, me and my buds do it all the time to hot chicks.

Don't sweat it, she likes you, you like her...do you need an engraved invitation?
 

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Wow KontrollerX nice post! I was going to give advice along those lines but that affected even me.

You think she is attractive and cool. End of story. Everyone else is just jealous or having a bit of fun. What do they make fun of her about? I know where you are coming from but you can't let your friends hold you back from something you want. Do what makes YOU happy not what makes them happy. There is no point going after something someone else wants, everyone wants something different.

Do it.
 

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seriously, if you don't you'll regret it!
Make it happen man, We all have friends who will make jokes, just be confident. Let them know that she is hot and fun. Tell them! They'll see her differently I promise you that.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hey ,what are doing ,don't be late ,go and direct say i love you
because if you will late than another one get it opportunity .
so don't be late and and go guys
ALL THE BEST
 
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