"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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This girl won't give up in trying to draw me in to her orbit of betas

Ringleader41

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So I used to like this girl and had oneitis over her, but I snapped out of it and did my own thing. She pretty much teased me and she has a reputation of being a tease. Well, she always blows up my phone with pointless texts and if I don't respond to them she sends others like why aren't you replying or some bs. I hate running in to her in person because she always tries to touch me and talk to me when I don't want to talk to her. My friend says she kind of likes me, but she's a tease. I don't understand why one girl would put so much effort in to trying to tease me.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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floydb25

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You dont need to understand anything other than thats the way she is. If youre not a tease, player, manipulator, jerk, attention *****, drama queen... You wont understand why they do these things. It wont register, because you're not crazy, mean, selfish, or retarded, like they are. It wont make sense, and doesnt have to.

Dont waste time analyzing crazy, stupid people. Just accept and realize that this how they are - then avoid them.
 

Chamber36

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floydb25 said:
Dont waste time analyzing crazy, stupid people. Just accept and realize that this how they are - then avoid them.
Those words ring true for me as well.

95% of people should be disregarded imo.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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AhMesmer

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It doesn't really matter why she does what she does. People will be the way they are no matter what we do or say. What does matter is what you intend to get out of this broad. Obviously you don't want a relationship or friendship. You probably shouldn't screw her either, that'll certainly up the volume of neurotic texting.

Just give her the ol' boot and move on with your spurs jinglin' and janglin'. Delete her number and distance yourself. Nothing good seems to come of being in her proximity!
 
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