"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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This girl told me to quit smoking

Dayum itz jee

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well this hb7.5 who is really digging me told me to "Quit smoking for me" i told her i'll consider it... which i really wont but.. What should i say in a situation like this?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Jack McCrack

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Say whatever you want.
 

blinkwatt

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Dayum itz jee said:
well this hb7.5 who is really digging me told me to "Quit smoking for me" i told her i'll consider it... which i really wont but.. What should i say in a situation like this?
hb;"Quit smoking for me"
you;"Drop your top for me"
hb;"No way!"
you;"Ha! See you don't like it when people tell you what to do huh?"

Just wondering,why do you continue to smoke? I do not see why people smoke;it cost alot/shortens your life/gives you bad breath. Think about it,the money and time you spend smoking,can be put towards a gym membership and time in the gym which then extends your lifespan. Just food for thought.
 

Jack McCrack

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Unless the gym burns down, taking you with it.
 
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