"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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this girl told me straight up she was a c0ck tease

jigga23

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I was out tonight with my friends and this hb 7-7.5 that i wouldnt mine sleeping with was there. tonight was actually good i had 3 girls giving me kino flirting etc with me. anyways the hb ive known for a bit of time was talking to me. she was like yea im a c0ck tease and i like to do it to mess with guys heads. I know shes one shes touchy flirty. she does it with me. My reply was "oh really i wouldve never guessed,.....(she laughs) and I say no im serious. then she tries to qualify herself cause i kept on saying geez you seemed like a goodie tooshoes to me. my friends were laughing cause i think they knew what i was doing. then i got out of the car cause she dropped us off and i said "later mother teresea" she busted out laughing hard.

I hope she will try to qualify herself with me hard. i told her tonight cause she was talking about "typical guys" who "sleep with every girl" i told her ive had plenty of girls in my bed, which is true, and wont sleep with them unless im attracted to them. i gotta run some other game on her when i see her again. i might see her tomorrow but i dont want to act like im hitting on her cause from what she was saying she hates when guys come onto her. ive already negged the sh!t out of her. what should i do next time i see her. remember i busted on her for being a good girl. she actually came up to me a couple of weekeneds ago and said chose a girl and i said for what she replied and said cause im going ot help you. i said i can get my own i dont need help. i think my roomate who is friends with her said something cause i dont sleep around like crazy even though i have opportunities. anyways let me know.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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KontrollerX

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If she gets touchy flirty with you find some smooth way to tell her she can't do that unless its going to lead to sex with you that same night.

Like its a priviledge only girls that fvck you get to have.
 

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hahaha i need an example of what to say to be smooth. she already knows it would be a priviledge cause i said i have girls in bed but i dont sleep with them unless they are attractive
 

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"hahaha i need an example of what to say to be smooth. she already knows it would be a priviledge cause i said i have girls in bed but i dont sleep with them unless they are attractive"

Bro, don't tell her that man, cause why would you have girls in your bed in the first place if they're not attractive. You don't wana look like you'd have any girl in your bed, remember you wana look like you got high standards cause you're the prize.

Keep with the whole 'its a previlage to sleep with you idea' though, keep on that pedestal, don't come off.

Peace
 

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jigga23 said:
she was like yea im a c0ck tease and i like to do it to mess with guys heads.
I have learned to really listen to people - they always tell you the truth about who they are. She IS already messing with your head, IMHO
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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