"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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This girl just might be crazy.. Help!

Nycbkdude

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I took this girl out on a date two days ago.
She's pretty cute so I decided to go for it.
We made out a bit and I drove her home since her roommate kept calling since she had to leave the keys.
Next day and the same night I relieved over 20 texts how's she's saying she misses me, can't be without me etc.
Following day she keeps calling and texting saying things like she needs me and she's really wants to see me and I'm always on her mind.
Now she is about 3 and years older than me I'm 22.

Since I've been busy and couldn't see her she's been saying things like "go to your other girls" etc.

Should I just do her once and quit it or not get involved at all?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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VladPatton

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It's up to you ultimately, but the ''Psycho Alert'' button just lit up on the SoSuave dashboard. If you bang this chick you'll never get rid of her hahaha. If she's hot and makes your willy twitch , you may be able to make her do some freaky ass shiyat in bed. But, once again, she's gonna be stuck on you with industrial strength psycho glue.
 

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I've walked away from more psycho pvssy than I've succumbed to the perceived delights. It really isn't worth the drama to pursue an obviously crazy chick on my experience.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Nycbkdude

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I'm taking your advice here guy's.
She's freaking me out lmao never had a girl so crazy for me.
She left about 30 texts since I created the thread and she left 5 voicemails begging me to call her at least.
 

VladPatton

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Nycbkdude said:
I'm taking your advice here guy's.
She's freaking me out lmao never had a girl so crazy for me.
She left about 30 texts since I created the thread and she left 5 voicemails begging me to call her at least.

Damn, what's her deal???? Where'd you meet this fantastic female?, I'm curious.
 

Nycbkdude

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I met her

I saw this girl in a coffee shop with her friend and grabbed her number thence reminded me about herself by liking a couple of my pics on FB.

So then I took her out and she "fell in love".
 

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shes BPD and probably be great in bed. If you can handle it ..then go for it. You only live once.
 
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