"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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This girl just might be crazy.. Help!

Nycbkdude

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I took this girl out on a date two days ago.
She's pretty cute so I decided to go for it.
We made out a bit and I drove her home since her roommate kept calling since she had to leave the keys.
Next day and the same night I relieved over 20 texts how's she's saying she misses me, can't be without me etc.
Following day she keeps calling and texting saying things like she needs me and she's really wants to see me and I'm always on her mind.
Now she is about 3 and years older than me I'm 22.

Since I've been busy and couldn't see her she's been saying things like "go to your other girls" etc.

Should I just do her once and quit it or not get involved at all?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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VladPatton

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It's up to you ultimately, but the ''Psycho Alert'' button just lit up on the SoSuave dashboard. If you bang this chick you'll never get rid of her hahaha. If she's hot and makes your willy twitch , you may be able to make her do some freaky ass shiyat in bed. But, once again, she's gonna be stuck on you with industrial strength psycho glue.
 

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I've walked away from more psycho pvssy than I've succumbed to the perceived delights. It really isn't worth the drama to pursue an obviously crazy chick on my experience.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Nycbkdude

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I'm taking your advice here guy's.
She's freaking me out lmao never had a girl so crazy for me.
She left about 30 texts since I created the thread and she left 5 voicemails begging me to call her at least.
 

VladPatton

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Nycbkdude said:
I'm taking your advice here guy's.
She's freaking me out lmao never had a girl so crazy for me.
She left about 30 texts since I created the thread and she left 5 voicemails begging me to call her at least.

Damn, what's her deal???? Where'd you meet this fantastic female?, I'm curious.
 

Nycbkdude

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I met her

I saw this girl in a coffee shop with her friend and grabbed her number thence reminded me about herself by liking a couple of my pics on FB.

So then I took her out and she "fell in love".
 

mikey2012

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shes BPD and probably be great in bed. If you can handle it ..then go for it. You only live once.
 
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