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this girl is soooostupid..opinion?

napoleon

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OK, I am not trying to judge this girl. I am trying to see how others think. I was kissing with this girl, after 10min of knowing her (in a club), I tried to grab her ass and she said no!
On the date she said the wanted me to smack me in the mouth, how I dare touching her ass- I said a kiss is more intimate than putting your hand on someones ass.
All that is besides the point.


My question is: do you find kissing or touching ass more intimate.

As I see it- putting your hand on the "extended thigh" is nothing compared to putting your tongue in some1s mouth, exchanging spit, licking lips...
 

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My question is: do you find kissing or touching ass more intimate.
kissing! ... at least if the touching was "touching" in the way I think of, and even if it was not, I'd still answer kissing. I mean, when standing in a club, sometimes touching her "extended thigh" (as a non-native speaker, I like that word ^^) comes before kissing...

just my opinion ;)
 

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Right!
If you think about it, a ass is no different than touching a leg.
And when I say touching- We're dancing, facing eachother and instead of resting my hands on her lower back, I tried to rest them on her upper-upper thigh;). Maybe a little squeeze here and there. But she didnt want me to just rest my hands on her ass:(.
 

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Kissing is more intimate than grabbing an ass to me. Grabbing ass is nothing more than grabbing a leg or thigh.
 

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Kissing is more intimate, sure.

But I disagree about it being stupid to feel otherwise. Her feelings about her butt could only be stupid if they had anything with logic to do, and they don't, so they aren't

All women are different on this stuff.. you'll see
 

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Kissing is more intimate but at least she gets a say in it. When you grab her ass she doesn get much of a chance to consent and might feel a little violated. At least thats what i think that girl was thinking.

But to stress an old point if you try to figure out what women are thinking, or rationalize there actions, your just gona end up alone at night with a massive headache
 

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I think RSD Ozzie put this down real good as I noticed in field. Overall you can get away with anything if you have a strong frame. But in this case there is too different types of touching, its either from a horny vibe (Bad) and a sexual vibe. (good) If your doing this from a sexual vibe then everything is all good, a way that I realize this is true is because I used to kino from a horny vibe and girls will pull away or point out what I did. But when its from a sexual vibe its just normal. Like I'd be touching a girls breast rather quickly (Before I even kiss) and it would go fine. Many things that I do now is far more sexual so its no problem with them.
 
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