This Girl Is Really Messing Up My Head/Game I NEED SOME MAJOR HELP!

[Alfie Crew]

First off I would have posted this in the HS forum, but I want some expert DJs opinions. Thanks

Ok there is this HB8, I have had a sort of a mild crush on (No oneitist, I have crushes on like 3 girls I just admire their styles and attitudes.) like for the last 3 months or so. I would usually just go up to her and run game, but lately there has been so many other girls in my life and I never ever see her...no biggie. But recently I started to see her more often I started to say "Hey" and ask her "How are you doing?" as we pasted. Nothing major, then she started calling me "hunny" and other pet names. At the same she slowly initiates body contact. Really catches me off guard and confuses me. Recently she starts running her finger through my hair in a seductive way and was like "You going to prom?"...I was caught completely off guard again today, since I only had said like 4 full sentences to this girl in my life ever. Our first convo went as followed:

Her: "You going to prom?"
Me : "No..."
Her: "Aww you that to bad."
Me: "Well I was thinking of maybe going last night, actually."(Really was going ask someone, but not asking her.)
Her: "Oh you should go."

I suck at running game around her. I am almost like frozen AFC at a lost of words. But I can manage to pull off the act of quite, cool, and withdrawn. My reasons why:

First I can't use any of the ideas of "You are embarrassing me...I am too cool for you" or the "Stop trying to hook up with me." Cuz she would be like "I know I am lucky to be with you" and "I am sorry I can't control myself." SO I CAN'T CREATE TENSION!?!

Secondly, since I had a crush on this girl I want her more so she feels like HB9.5. Which really messes with my reality because it confuses me that HB9.5 would just throw herself at me.

Thirdly I feel no self-satisfaction not winning the girl over, or having to work for her. So this confuses my mind even more, because she is hot so I am still interested in her anyway.

Another side note, she has never known me when I was a AFC.(only I have ever meet that hasn't known me before) She has only known since I have been a DJ. Her friends love me. She is a grade lower then me. Also I am point where I feel I can get any girl in my school, if they are single...I am good looking and have great skills with women.

I now debating if I want to ask her to prom. I feel she obviously wants me to ask her, but I can't tell if she doing this "seductive" playing to get me to just ask her because all of friends are going, so she can go. Or if she really wants me. I don't want to let her use me.

I know when a girl asks about prom and you both are dateless it really only means one thing, well at least for me. I can't wait it out then ask her later like a little *****. I would have asked her then, but I was so off guard. So I am planning on asking her tomorrow....This is what I am going to say roughly:

"If you would like to, I will let you go to prom with me. But only if stop this hitting on me stuff I am afraid you might start stalking me...if you aren't already? I hope you are cooler than that, you aren't just trying to just get in my pants like everyone else.(Not sure on this last line"


REALLY NEED ADVICE HELP ME OUT THANKS! I AM REALLY BUSY AND HAVE NO TIME TO THINK

 

[Alfie Crew]

Just ask her. As long as you don't come across as too much of an AFC you'll be fine.

It's to be expected that you may be confused with a HB 9.5 throwing herself at you, especialy if you're not used to it, but honestly you've done most of the work, now you can enjoy yourself.

Imagine you were playing some sport or game and you've suddenly started getting good, would you start playing or worrying? Course not, you'd enjoy the fact you were so good and go with it.

Yeah thanks. I have had girls do this before but ussally like HB4 so I just ignore and take no action. But this girl is hot, so I get confused. Good metaphor btw.

 

[Blackdragon5095]

Interest Level

Test women by their actions not their words. When girls play mind games they do it to test you or just mess with you because they think it's fun. I have some girls at job and career school trying to mess with me but they are realizing the game is over. :nono:

I can't tell if she messing with your head unless you do a test.

If you do a test to see if this girl digs you or not. Ask if she wants to hang out or even work out with you. If she interested then she will accept and make plans with you. If she dosen't accept and makes up excuses not to hang out with you or work out or w/e. Then she not interested in you and she is just a flirt.

Test her interest level by doing action. Like for example ( asking her out on a date ) Remember women who are interested in you cannot help to want to hug you , kiss you and even bang you. Women who are not interested can not help to not want to hug you , kiss you and even not want to bang you.

Girls who are flirts aren't interested in you they just like the attention. You can mess up these girls game by testing her by doing a action that tests her interest level.

Remember man either you own the game or the game owns you.

 

[Alfie Crew]

thanks

 

[GayFrivolous69]

Have sex with her mom. :flowers: