"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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This girl is killing me. DOES SHE LIKE ME?

intrextrovert

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All these guys got it. Man up kid, quit acting like a woman.

If it makes you feel any better, she's probably a dumb ho. It hurts but i would bet it's true, especially considering you're a smart guy and she's acting like dumb hos i know act when they're wierded out by a guy (doesn't mean she's a bad person, one of my best friends that is a girl is someone i would call that lol).
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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(JJ)

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jesus. i want to offer advice, i really do. but there's just so much wrong. what happened to the good old days when people lurked for months, read other solid posts, and actually had a grip on what they needed to do before embarrassing themselves with posts like these?
 

base2ball2boy2

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I bet it took you longer to insert all the bolds and italics than to actually read just one Pook post in the bible.
 

T-Roy

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Here's what you do if you want her. Drop her for a few months. Ignore here almost completely. Say hi to here in the halls if you pass her but that's about it. If she tries talking too you, respond as little as possible. Then just randomly ask her out. Figure out what you want to do on your own. (Also during this time that you are ignoring her, don't base your life around that goal. Live it. Get women, get guy friends, do stuff in school, get an awesome reputation for yourself.)

Chances are if you do what I said, you wont even want her back near the end of it. Good luck bro, you've got a lot of work ahead of you.

(PS: Awesome typing dude. Good to see that kinda stuff around now a days. Also, not a half bad writing style.)

(PPS: I'm probably not going to come back and look at this. xD So if you reply to me, I may not see it. lol)
 

kevin1198

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dude, its over, forget about her, there are plenty of girls out there that will be ready for a fresh DJ out of the box (you). start learning, have fun, dont worry about one girl, and get some hobbies.

all these guys have basically said what i previously said, especially read the DJ bibile, then read it again, there are certain articles that will help change your views on life if you read them more than once.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ElCubanito13

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Dude straight up ,and I'm sorry but that is so pathetic. Dude grow a pair. Sorry for me being mean but this is probably the stereotypical AFC story. I feel bad for you just from reading this :cry: . Don't get me wrong I wasn't born a Don Juan and I still don't consider myself one. I used to be like this over a girl, check out my other post (the one i created). But then something happened....I MEET ANOTHER girl and I have been seeing her since the beginning of school. But only recently did i start talking to her (for future reference I say the 10/9/09). I saw some signs of interest (laughing her azz off at one my stupid joke [only stupid joke], saying counterjokes of her own using my joke's formula, alot of almost non-stop eye contact and slight kino.) and I only talked to her for like 5 minutes. Tomorrow I am going to do a number close, heavy kino, C&F, teasing and maybe a kiss close by the end of the week.

Oh and I'm only in the eighth grade. :kick:

Well much luck to you i hoped this helped. And peace out fellow DJs.
 
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