"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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This girl is into me TOO quickly...

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Hey, this girl I just went out with is really into me and she said that she's gonna call me tomorrow. What the hell should I do? After a date, I normally want the girl to stay away from me for a few days then I'll make date #2 about 5 days later. I don't want to rush things, but I also don't want to give this chick the cold shoulder. Should I make up some respectable excuse not to see the girl too soon again or should I tell her I don't want to rush things? Opinions appreciated.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I got an idea...


If she wants to go out with me the next day or something. I'll say "I know something we can do, but it's on Tuesday." Then if she tries to ask me what it is I won't tell her and keep it a surprise. This will create excitement for her and buy me some time for her to obsess over me more. Then I'll give her a call in a few days and rent a movie at my place. Yes! that should work fine.
 
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