"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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This girl is into me TOO quickly...

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Hey, this girl I just went out with is really into me and she said that she's gonna call me tomorrow. What the hell should I do? After a date, I normally want the girl to stay away from me for a few days then I'll make date #2 about 5 days later. I don't want to rush things, but I also don't want to give this chick the cold shoulder. Should I make up some respectable excuse not to see the girl too soon again or should I tell her I don't want to rush things? Opinions appreciated.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I got an idea...


If she wants to go out with me the next day or something. I'll say "I know something we can do, but it's on Tuesday." Then if she tries to ask me what it is I won't tell her and keep it a surprise. This will create excitement for her and buy me some time for her to obsess over me more. Then I'll give her a call in a few days and rent a movie at my place. Yes! that should work fine.
 
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