"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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this girl is insane.

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we go out she seems interested shes crazy for me.

couple days later flaky, no replys to calls or texts..

then i ask her out on another date she accepts we meet shes crazy for me
really interested try to go to her place to f her. she gets defensive about it smh.. in my mind am like wtf?? i end the date short, try to kiss her doesnt let me .. i walk away without saying goodbye or anything ..:confused:

so i ignore her after this, she likes 2 pics and a status of mine on fb i still ignore this i dont contact her.. still no contact after one week. i unfriend her on FB 2 days ago and she texts me that same day ''hey how are you i havent heard from you''? shes facken NUTS!!

i have nexted her b!tch assss.. SMH..
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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LMAO. The ending was so funny. I laughed. :D

It could be she lost interest. From what? I'm not sure but that's an indicator of loss of interest on her part for sure.
 

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instantnoodles said:
LMAO. The ending was so funny. I laughed. :D

It could be she lost interest. From what? I'm not sure but that's an indicator of loss of interest on her part for sure.
LOL i was so pist she wasnt putting up.:p
 

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Jair213 said:
we go out she seems interested shes crazy for me.

couple days later flaky, no replys to calls or texts..

then i ask her out on another date she accepts we meet shes crazy for me
really interested try to go to her place to f her. she gets defensive about it smh.. in my mind am like wtf?? i end the date short, try to kiss her doesnt let me .. i walk away without saying goodbye or anything ..:confused:

so i ignore her after this, she likes 2 pics and a status of mine on fb i still ignore this i dont contact her.. still no contact after one week. i unfriend her on FB 2 days ago and she texts me that same day ''hey how are you i havent heard from you''? shes facken NUTS!!

i have nexted her b!tch assss.. SMH..
Dude she did you a favor and showed her crazy up front.

It is bizarre when a chick acts like an AFC with ONEitis, especially the first couple dates!? Slvts sirens go off which can be a good thing..But yeah 99% of the time these ones end up needy, clingy as sh*t.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Stay the fvck off Facebook and consider calling in a drone strike on the b!tch.
 

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you guys need to stop taking women out that you have not Fed yet.. they lose attraction and don't respect you when you do that... just invite them to your house and try to F if the F you they are attracted and if they keep talking to you after that night they really like you then you can think about taking them out..
 

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She texted today why I unfriended her on fb. Lol

Texted me why I am ignoring her.

Smh
 
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You have to answer these 2 questions, Jair.

Why add her on Facebook?

Why de-friend her on Facebook?

To me, it's quite obvious that things didn't go as planned and you took the "measure."
She didn't pursue physical intimacy with you, she sees you as someone that can orbit. The moment you showed signs of leaving her orbit, she tries to pull you back. Does this mean attraction? No.

Going back to your date, you tried to kiss her and she won't let you. So instinctively you you walk away > appearing butthurt in her eyes. It may or may not be a sh!t test, but you handled it very poorly. Always treat it like a sh!t test,

Whoa, is my GF watching?

I just thougt of that, you can do better. Simply brush it off and continue to gauge her interest. If she is strictly platonic, you can judge by her reaction during the escalation process. She DID understandthat it was a DATE, right????? She had initial interest, but something you did or said took her away from Mhmmmmm RightJair Zone to Uhmmmmmm Not'Jair.

Anyways, to sum it up, she ain't Jair.
 

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BeDJ said:
You have to answer these 2 questions, Jair.

Why add her on Facebook?

Why de-friend her on Facebook?

To me, it's quite obvious that things didn't go as planned and you took the "measure."
She didn't pursue physical intimacy with you, she sees you as someone that can orbit. The moment you showed signs of leaving her orbit, she tries to pull you back. Does this mean attraction? No.

Going back to your date, you tried to kiss her and she won't let you. So instinctively you you walk away > appearing butthurt in her eyes. It may or may not be a sh!t test, but you handled it very poorly. Always treat it like a sh!t test,

Whoa, is my GF watching?

I just thougt of that, you can do better. Simply brush it off and continue to gauge her interest. If she is strictly platonic, you can judge by her reaction during the escalation process. She DID understandthat it was a DATE, right????? She had initial interest, but something you did or said took her away from Mhmmmmm RightJair Zone to Uhmmmmmm Not'Jair.

Anyways, to sum it up, she ain't Jair.
I just replied a couple of minutes ago to her texts and she called a couple of seconds later after me texting. I pick up had a short conversation, set up another date, she acepts. Meeting her up saturday. I was surprised she called its 1 in the morning:confused:

But For real bro. I was mad butthurt over it. But damn I was already having a ****ty day so that just thicked me off. LOL

I think watt messed up the date was that I took a phone call and talked for like a minute(it was one of my buddys). Don't know if that messed it up.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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You pushed too fast, too hard. Be more subtle and patient. Give it a few dates, man. Everyone is so quick to F chicks that is makes you seem very pushy, eager, and ravenous for sex. Of course she'll see right through that. Slow it down and see what happens. If nothing, so be it, you're not supposed to give a shıt either way. And also, stop Facebookin these chicks, man, it leads to nothing but digital drama.
 
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