Whats up guys. A few weeks ago I posted about this girl I was into. Well I just got back into town and we got together at a bbq. She was there with another guy and some females. We were all feeling a lil tipsy. I let her do her thing and I went on to speak with one of the other ladies. At one point me the girl I wanted to pursue the dude and the new girl were in an area and she the girl I wated made a comment about how I was with the other female. I kissed the new girl and she kissed the guy. She then kept making comments that I had cheated on her! I got her alone we spoke about stuff. She told me she hasnt dated someone in a while that he is just a friend and we sould go out. Then we kissed. She told someone she didnt know I was into her because I did hit her up often. I dont know how I should ask her out. I mean we were drunk. We have txt since then little hello messages but thats it.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
This girl is driving me crazy
- Thread starter vega1225
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Tictac
Banned
She is not driving you crazy. You are allowing her actions to drive you crazy.
Why?
Why?