"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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This girl is crazy really im fed up

Plain & Simple

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Well today outta nowhere i found this out.

I went to the workplace to do my pohysical, after i finished i went to kick it with my buddies at work, she was around too.

So normally we go home on our break, so it was break time and i told her, lets go home, she said no she doesnt feel like it, so i said ok lets go to the car and just kick it there, she said no too, that she wanna be alone and doesnt wanna talk.

I didnt know what the hell was wrong cause the day before we was perfect no arguement or nothing, i dropped her back to work yesterday and she was just fine.

So i ask her whats the matter and it took a while before she told me what was bothering her but she said that " ITs so irritating the things you say" now i always joke and act ****y with her i told her yesterday, " how many condoms u got left, i know how many weve used" she kept them this time i was joking though and i thought she knew it cause she smiled too and i asked her to "when are u going to go down on me its been a while" so for those 2 questions she got mad at me without me even knowing it until today.

See thats how she is she gets mad for every lil thing shell probably get mad if u blink wrong. so we talked and we good, but im fed up i told her too i even told her that i wanted to break up with her and that what she wanted to do she said, that no she doesnt wan to, that we are together.

But thats what im talking about when she gets mad even for straight bs she doesnt even tell u nothing, u have to luckily find out.

Now she said that she doesnt feel confortable coming to the house cause of what i said that she put papers in the trash can that nobody uses in my house wich she did, and after my dad told her eye to eye that he doesnt care if she comes over that she is invited wether he is here or not, and now hes out of town for 2 weeks she still says that she doesnt feel confortable coming over, so what the hell. And that she doesnt wanna go down on me cause she doesnt like doing that, hell she has done it in the past.
So what this means she doesnt wanna come over she doesnt wanna have sex in the car and im definetly not invited in her house, and her dad got her onlock that she cant go out so how is this gonna work?

Im fed up with this girl man im really am, always getting mad for bs, and now that she is invited to the house and i dont gotta "sneak" her in like before she says that she doesnt want to.
she gets mad for me asking her when she is gonna go down on me cause its been a while i even went down on her on a few occasions and she didnt return the favor i didnt get mad or say a word, yet she finds any lil excuse to get mad.

She is selfish, too childish and immature.


Yet she got the nerve to ask me if ima go with her to her new school when she goes to do the test. HELL NO! let somebody else take u and give u some dik
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Smooth Player 056

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Id say a small 8% of women dont like ****y and funny attitude she just may be one of em. Drop her like a fly.



- Smooth Player 056 -
Founder and Creator of the HSDJBC/ Contest
Founder of Ultimate HSDJ Technique
 

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is this the girl you cried in front of when she dumped you?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Plain & Simple

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^YES! i cant believe i did that, now its the opposite way though im the one that wants to do the dumping.
 

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Originally posted by Plain & Simple


Now she said that she doesnt feel confortable coming to the house cause of what i said that she put papers in the trash can that nobody uses in my house wich she did, and after my dad told her eye to eye that he doesnt care if she comes over that she is invited wether he is here or not, and now hes out of town for 2 weeks she still says that she doesnt feel confortable coming over, so what the hell. And that she doesnt wanna go down on me cause she doesnt like doing that, hell she has done it in the past.
So what this means she doesnt wanna come over she doesnt wanna have sex in the car and im definetly not invited in her house, and her dad got her onlock that she cant go out so how is this gonna work?



she doesnt want to have sex with you anymore. who knows why.
 

dannyc

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Seriously dump her, im advising you to let go.

I was kind of in the same situation as you and it was hard for me to finish it but i had to let go, coz i knew in the long term i was going to get nothing out of this and i was just with her for the sake of having a girl on my side.

Shes messing with your head man just like my ex was doing. You got to dump her and let her know that you're a man and can walk away. I guarantee u theres a host of girls out there better and hotter than her.
 

Black_Italian

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Man from what you said in your last post about this girl you sook o much to and you have trouble letting go of things. This is why she’s annoyed with you.

Anyway shes cheating on you i told you ages ago on the original post about her then 2 days ago you made a post of how shes not tight anymore. Today this your giles cheating.

Ninja out
 
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