"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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this girl is acting like a fvcking jackazz

MKS82

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Lets just say I've known this girl for a while and we know each iother inside out and tell each other that we love one another she says it a lot more than me though. The last month or so we started hanging out again after a while of not seeing each other. But I know how she is. We've been fvcking often. We sleep together often recently before it was just the weekened. This week it was everday since fri and today is thursday. We never have really got into a fight yet.

Like 2 weeks ago we were fvcked up and out of the blue she started asking me what I wanted from her cause I never let her know my feelings and she thought I was using her for sex which I denied. I threartened to get up and leave but I didn't cause she apologized. She is a needy person for sure but I was like well eventually I want a relationship and she was like blah blah yes no yes no sh1t. Next day I basically told her im going to leave her alone cause she was acting shady. 5 days go by and she calls me. That was last friday and we chilled everday since then.

She calls me everyday and says come over blah blah. So I do. We have fun, sex etc. She's like this weekened lets go do so and so. Yesterday I get a call from her and sounds like she was just crying I asked what was wrong and some sh1t happened at work, big to her but sounded little to me. So I listen. She tells me some girl is taking all the credit for work she's done etc and she's p1ssed at eceryone blah blah.

Later at night she calls me to come over and sh1t seemed fine. We go to sleep like normal and she starts cuddling. Then she busts out we shouldn't make this a habit. Wtf? She says about us sleeping together every night even though she calls me to come over. Then says she's scared about getting into a relationship with me and her guard is up. Im like wtf. Deja vu. I threaten to leave again cause sh1t is ridiculous. She says the same sh1t she said two weeks ago, need to find myself cause i m sacred of a relatuonship and im pissed at people and u could be using me for something blah blah. I tell her she's crazy and call her out for taking her p. I get dressed start to leave and she says why u acting like this? I tell her im not a toy that can be picked up and put back down. Then she saysroblems out on me when im there to help her. She says sorry. Then poof she's back to normal. For sure bi polar. We kiss and go to sleep. This morning I wake up kiss her ggodbye but have an uneasy feeling.

I wanna text her and say ur being an azzhole when I haven't done sh1t to u and tell her im done. But im holding back thinking I should probably just not talk to her for a little to let her work sh1t settle down.. I've seen her act like this before and it p1sses me off.. Im not ready to walk a way yet but should I tell her she's acting unexceptable and say im gouing to lescver her alone?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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you know what? first thing I thought was Bi Polar. But then, all your GFs are "Bi Polar" so it's not even really a guess.
 

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Also she was claimign I was pressuring her and causing drama which iwas doing none of that. I told her she was trying to be the victim
 

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Yea seriousky she is bi polar. She's on fvckin meds. Ive seen her take them. Her rother side comes out like every2 weeks lol. I even tell her she is. I wanna lay right into her about how fvcked up she is but im not going too. Im going to leave her alone. When she calls which Im 100 percent sure will haoppen im gioing to tell her straight up how fvcked up she is
 

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2 words, DRAMA QUEEN. She just wants drama. If for some weird reason you like it, stay with her. If you're a normal guy who hates this crap, walk away.

Oh and the rule of thumb for crazy chicks is to not sleep with them. Period.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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