"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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This girl I see everyday

shakin'cakes

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Hey guys. So I'm eyeing this girl in school that I know fairly well, we've hung out before. I kinda get the feeling she likes me but not sure yet. Everyday I see her we kinda mess around ( smacking eachother lightly, tickling, etc.. ), but I wanna progress this further.

How would I go about doing this?

I've had gf's before but I never really got how I did it actually haha. I'm pretty okay at being smooth in convo and I'm a pretty funny guy, I'm also pretty confident so that's not much of a problem, I just need to know how I could approach this. Say like I see her in the halls or something, what would I do to show her I like her?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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SkyTouch

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Yeah, this sounds like a no-brainer. Ask her out for a cofee, or to watch a movie or something.
 
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