This girl i been mackin to through out this week, yesterday her bf gotten into a huge arguement. She was askin me for advice, what she should do. She was thinkin about forgivin him, after he play her for like 3x already. So she finally came to her senses and broke up with him. Now, should i just wait it out, or pursue her? Any advice would be great. thanks.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
This girl i like, just broke up with her bf. Should i pursue or wait it out?
- Thread starter aznxboi
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Lost In Translation
Master Don Juan
let her pursue YOU ( create interest )
don't wait.
waiting = she will get back with MR 3 times a cheater
history repeats itself.
don't be a nice guy and wait it out, care about her feelings etc.
nice guys finish LAST.
she is asking you for advice sounds abit close to LJBF to me.
but if she is legit DO IT !
JUST DO IT !
BUST A MOVE !
Lost In Translation
**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
Quote: Don Juanabbe
“ What are you Vanilla-bloody-Ice? “
Quote: Player_Supreme
“ But if a ho wants to just be friends then don't waste your time. And I'm a debase character so your hooking up with her friend in front of her was sweet to my ears. “
Quote: Player_Supreme
“I've taken a fat chick and put her on a diet and training program and created my own super ho. “
Quote: PuertoRican_Lover
“First off - she is just another hor who has opened her legs to another man - you are no one special - and there are no "Greatest" to hors - you are just the next pimp in line!!! “
Quote: PuertoRican_Lover
“ the 'pimp' mentality works today because you are living in a time such that there are an overabundance if hors - this is the Pimps playground!! Pimps and hors go together like bread and butter - they are complementary natures!!! Pimps need hors like hors need pimps!! “
Quote: squirrels
“ You NEVER pay as a supplicative or bargaining measure, though. The reward that she gets for her affection is YOUR affection. The reward she gets for her sex is YOUR sex. The second you start buying her stuff to keep her around, keep her entertained in your presence, etc...you're compensating for not having what it takes to seduce the woman, and that's totally unacceptable. “
don't wait.
waiting = she will get back with MR 3 times a cheater
history repeats itself.
don't be a nice guy and wait it out, care about her feelings etc.
nice guys finish LAST.
she is asking you for advice sounds abit close to LJBF to me.
but if she is legit DO IT !
JUST DO IT !
BUST A MOVE !
Lost In Translation
**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
Quote: Don Juanabbe
“ What are you Vanilla-bloody-Ice? “
Quote: Player_Supreme
“ But if a ho wants to just be friends then don't waste your time. And I'm a debase character so your hooking up with her friend in front of her was sweet to my ears. “
Quote: Player_Supreme
“I've taken a fat chick and put her on a diet and training program and created my own super ho. “
Quote: PuertoRican_Lover
“First off - she is just another hor who has opened her legs to another man - you are no one special - and there are no "Greatest" to hors - you are just the next pimp in line!!! “
Quote: PuertoRican_Lover
“ the 'pimp' mentality works today because you are living in a time such that there are an overabundance if hors - this is the Pimps playground!! Pimps and hors go together like bread and butter - they are complementary natures!!! Pimps need hors like hors need pimps!! “
Quote: squirrels
“ You NEVER pay as a supplicative or bargaining measure, though. The reward that she gets for her affection is YOUR affection. The reward she gets for her sex is YOUR sex. The second you start buying her stuff to keep her around, keep her entertained in your presence, etc...you're compensating for not having what it takes to seduce the woman, and that's totally unacceptable. “
jakeyboy
Master Don Juan
im in the same situation now.. she finally came to her senses and saw that it was stupid for her to be with him in the first place. as for what i'm gonna do, i'm gonna ask her over to my place to study... and maybe something will get itself on 
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Be careful when you're the rebound guy... Batting 'clean up' isn't always the best thing...
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
jesus christ well it seems like this has been our week for most of us in this site.Originally posted by jakeyboy
im in the same situation now.. she finally came to her senses and saw that it was stupid for her to be with him in the first place. as for what i'm gonna do, i'm gonna ask her over to my place to study... and maybe something will get itself on
The girl ive been after finally broke up with her bf for the same exact reason, and i invited her over to my house yesterday , enough said that we ended up making out.... and we will soon be in an official RL now is just unofficial...