ive known her for a short while and we get along okay. we were talking and i hypothetically asked her if i asked her out if she would say yes. her response was it would depend on how i asked. now what exactly does that mean? i was going to ask her out at that point but she is very good looking so i didn't know whether to proceed or not.
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Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
this girl gave me this response today
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She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Buddha_Mind
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It means, ask her out casually and in a positive way -- something fun. If you make it sound like a chore or that her acceptance will validate your life, than this will turn her off.
Just be fun, light. Ask in a way that doesn't set you up for failure (ie, "I was about to go ______ [some fun thing], want to join me?")
Just be fun, light. Ask in a way that doesn't set you up for failure (ie, "I was about to go ______ [some fun thing], want to join me?")
yes she did also say if i asked her out in a dorky way that it would be badBuddha_Mind said:
i'm going to ask her out next time i see her but i have a hard time thinking she is into me because she's really good looking, like out of my league.
Buddha_Mind
Master Don Juan
She is clearly giving you some major signs here buddy -- and be happy she said that.
Just go in confident, she's just a person like you and me. Don't let her looks cover up the fact that behind them is a human mind, all full of insecurities and fears.
Make her feel comfortable and light, believe in yourself.
Most importantly -- believe in yourself
Just go in confident, she's just a person like you and me. Don't let her looks cover up the fact that behind them is a human mind, all full of insecurities and fears.
Make her feel comfortable and light, believe in yourself.
Most importantly -- believe in yourself
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rapidfire said:
ouch. you got into a hypothetical conversation. That's never good. The only way to proceed now is with boldness.
She said it would depend on how you asked. In my opinion that means, don't be the type of chickenshyt who ask hypothetical question and then ask "well what do you want to do". When you ask her out, ask with confidence, tell her where you guys are going, and tell her its going to be fun. Remove all doubt about the chickenshytness you showed by asking a hypothetical. Good luck.
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it doesnt seems like shes interested at all. if she was then she wouldnt have said "it depends" she wouldve said "yes". shell probably just go wit u for the hell of it but i doubt shell even let u kiss close. its possible but i doubt it. dont waste ur time trying to game her, just keep her as a friend. besides if u were going to ask then u shouldve did it right then.
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It means when you stop asking girls ridiculous questions you stop getting ridiculous, cryptic and ultimately meaningless answers.rapidfire said:
Holy shyt! titties is back!
Anyway, to the op: What she meant by that was "I might go out with you if you grow a pair and ask me straight up, while you still have 'manpoints' with me, instead of this 'hypothetically,' pvssiness, but until then, you're going to sink into the friendzone."
Anyway, to the op: What she meant by that was "I might go out with you if you grow a pair and ask me straight up, while you still have 'manpoints' with me, instead of this 'hypothetically,' pvssiness, but until then, you're going to sink into the friendzone."
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i say out of my league not because i am ugly or anything. i actually like my looks and think i'm okay. i say out of my league because i've never really gotten much dates, especially with really good looking girls. she is really good looking so it's like "whoa, can't believe it".
i am going to ask her out next time i see her. i was going to ask her to come along today because i did some fun stuff right after but i started thinking about whether i'd say it right so i lost my nerve heh, :\
thanks
i am going to ask her out next time i see her. i was going to ask her to come along today because i did some fun stuff right after but i started thinking about whether i'd say it right so i lost my nerve heh, :\
thanks
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I really love how you pretended to ask her out, and in turn she pretended to give you a vague non-answer.
If you're going to ask out a woman, just fvcking do it instead of being a pvssy and using hypothetical bull5hit
If you're going to ask out a woman, just fvcking do it instead of being a pvssy and using hypothetical bull5hit
jophil28
Master Don Juan
^^ Yep, That is the 'womanspeek' translation of her reaction.horaholic said:
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jophil28
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Duece.
jophil28
Master Don Juan
Geez, if you are going to go 'hypothetical' , at least say something at least amusing or entertaining, and a little ****y.rapidfire said:
You to a HB," Hey, let me float this by you . Hypothetically speaking, if an interesting guy asked you, would you be open to going out ?"
She, "Hypothetically ? Maybe, who is he?"
You, " Oh, just a guy I know who thinks that you are moderately attactive."
HB drops jaw to the floor and says," MODERATELY ! WTF !"
You, "Yeah, he is extremely picky- much like myself. "
HB. ( big grin but detects a loss of the frame) " Oh really ! What makes HIM so special?"
You, " OK, I can hear your intrigue already. What's your number. He will call you ."
Blah blah ...
You dig ?