"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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This Girl flirts with me, but has boyfriend

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I approached this girl the other day and got her phone number...i soon found out that she has a boyfriend, and she tells me afterward too....im not in the "friend zone" since i use kino on her and she gets really close to me (physically) and she flirts with me also she smiles everytime she sees me......i want to date this girl but she says that she doesnt know me enough to drop her old boyfriend for me.

the question is...should i continue flirt and talk to this girl untill she breaks up with her old boyfriend ? (because i really intend to go out with this chick)

what the Don Quan way of handling this situation?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

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I had a similar situation. In my journal she is referred to as HB Amanda, I was able to make out with this chick on 3 separate occasions while she had a boyfriend, though we never ended up going out. She also lied about not having a boyfriend while we were doing this.

Sounds like YOUR chick wants you as a backup in case she loses her man. Game a different chick until that one changes for you, if not, she isn't worth it.
 
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THis happened to me , she gave me so many IOIs but then just wanted to be friends the whole time apparently , so I basically said the **** with her
 
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Hes right

SoSly said:
THis happened to me , she gave me so many IOIs but then just wanted to be friends the whole time apparently , so I basically said the **** with her
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SoSly , it just happened
 
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