Quick bg on this girl. Met her through mutual people a long time ago. Moved in the area about 5 months ago (from college). Broke up with my gf ran into this new girl. We hung out a couple of times, we were basically starting to kind of date i think and were talking for a month or two. Always heavy flirting going on. Went to her house one night didnt bone cause i just wasnt in the mood too drunk and high. 2 weeks later we hung out and i tried to take her back to my house this time but she dissed me, and i let her know that wasnt cool (obviously getting me back for the other weekened). After that things got weird between us and really didnt hang out anymore. I texted her maybe on 2 occasions after that weekened. Both times she didnt reply back. So I said fvck it i guess were totally done.
So we havent talked in about 1.5-2 months. This last weekened i went to play volleyball with a couple of people that we both mutually know. she wasnt there but her older sister was, im pretty sure she knows what went on between me and her sister. After we got done playing some random dude was asking her how her sister was. she went on to say shes having a party this weekened and you can come and bring anyone. then my friend (mutual friend) blurted out to his sister "yea ill bring XXXX (me) with me" and they both laughed and so did i. Then my friend was like how can your sister get rid of this guy (pointed at me cause i had my shirt off). she was like hahaha i know. then he said again XXXX and i are going and i said not really in a playful way. I left and that was that.
So today i get a text from that girl out of the blue. it said hey im having a graduation party and you and whomever else are more than welcome to come. I didnt text her back yet its been like 5 hours. Ill probably text her back tonight and say hey i might be able to go not sure though but let me get your address so i know how to get to your house. If i go how should i act around her should i just flirt or just be standoffish and ****y. shell be drunk and mostly i will do the same if i go.
So we havent talked in about 1.5-2 months. This last weekened i went to play volleyball with a couple of people that we both mutually know. she wasnt there but her older sister was, im pretty sure she knows what went on between me and her sister. After we got done playing some random dude was asking her how her sister was. she went on to say shes having a party this weekened and you can come and bring anyone. then my friend (mutual friend) blurted out to his sister "yea ill bring XXXX (me) with me" and they both laughed and so did i. Then my friend was like how can your sister get rid of this guy (pointed at me cause i had my shirt off). she was like hahaha i know. then he said again XXXX and i are going and i said not really in a playful way. I left and that was that.
So today i get a text from that girl out of the blue. it said hey im having a graduation party and you and whomever else are more than welcome to come. I didnt text her back yet its been like 5 hours. Ill probably text her back tonight and say hey i might be able to go not sure though but let me get your address so i know how to get to your house. If i go how should i act around her should i just flirt or just be standoffish and ****y. shell be drunk and mostly i will do the same if i go.