"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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this girl believe in 'signs'

bukowski_merit

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ok... so this girl at work has a boyfriend. whatever; i've never cared - i tempt fate daily; been with many women with bfs; waiting for one to catch up with me and put a bullet in me...

anyway - same old story: he's never around, he doesn't act affectionate towards her anymore, he plays video games all day and ignores her, etc etc...

i break up with my ex bout a lilttle while ago, and she emails me one day about something and suddenly we talk...

bout a week into it, she says she doesn't know what it means but she can't stop thinking about me (i coulda told her what that meant)... and tells me all this stuff about believing in signs and fate... kindda making it sound like she wanted to break up with her bf and be with me... bad idea... do not do that little girl scout... blah blah blah... lets skip the rest...

ok... so today she asks me if i want to drink after work
i tell her i do, but i invite her to my house because i don't do bars
so she agrees
on the way over here she gets in a car accident! a big one!
she's not injured; and her car isn't damaged but the person she hit had to get their car towed... etc...

so i just got off the phone with her... she tells me 'i told you i believe in signs and this is a sign.' i laughed, she said 'i'm serious, i shouldn't have been coming over there'... the rest of the conversation was small...


don't think i have the experience to battle this one fella... sounds like a pretty big hurdle to jump over... i think i'm pulling out of this one... sound reasonable?


and i know some of you hate guys who mess with girls with boyfriends... so you don't have to tell me how much you hate guys who mess with girls with boyfriends :D
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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KontrollerX

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Well its not that we hate guys who mess with other guy's girlfriends here its simply we hate the mindset of the dumbasses who come here and ask us how to get a relationship with one.

Ultimate AFC move to try and get a relationship with a girl who would cheat and btw all that sh!t such chicks feed you about their boyfriend being this or that blah blah blah all of that is done to make her look justified for cheating in your eyes so as not to scare you off. Read: Its lies.

Cheating chicks are simply too stupid to realize the guys that go after them have a lack of options which is why such guys are persuing them in the first place so these chicks don't realize that it doesn't matter how likely she is to cheat on you as well so she doesn't have to hide the real reason she will be cheating on her BF with you because you are just trying to get into her pants at all costs anyway you could care less how moral she is when you are of the AFC mind.

An AFC will get with her and try to have a relationship with her because in such an AFC guy's mind he is trying to secure a source of steady pvssy and any pvssy that will have him at that.

He is not of the mindset that you don't fall in love with such a woman and at first he's all about the easy sex but then over time the dumbass starts to believe the bullsh!t she is feeding him and he falls for her and guess what she either goes back to BF eventually or goes to someother guy effectively cheating on you continuing the cycle of her life ie going for the perceived better deal whomever that may be at the moment.

And to clarify DJ's don't consider fvcking another guy's girlfriend wrong unless its a friend or family member.

The only thing DJ's are against is going for a relationship with a cheating girl or any other kind of loser with highly negative and unsuitable traits for a relationship.

DJ's are also not against turning a cheating girl into a fvck buddy but yeah no love, no real relationship for a girl with such disgusting personal traits.

Going for a relationship with a chick like this is the ultimate AFC scarcity mentality move.

Simply fvcking them or making them a fvck buddy is the DJ way.

Hope that clears things up. :up:
 

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So I'm confused...is she letting this "sign" of a car accident to determine her action of not seeing you? Sorry, but I think this girl has some real issues if this is the case.
 
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