Hello,
since I last visited this site I changed ALLOT.
not to brag but I get told from numorous people EVERY day I look very good and im a pleasant guy to be with.
now my problem: I have been enjoying the women attention for 3-4 months (you know ... foolin around a little) and just at the time I thought I couldn't fall in love anymore and would fool around for the rest of my life and loving it just as the way it is ... this girl comes, 2 years younger then me VERY hot and VERY friendly.
I saw this girl on a ... well not dating site ... but you can meet other people, we chatted some and got eachothers addie ... talked some and I asked her to hang out with me and some mates of mine (also girls among them) so yea... I told her to meet me at a meeting spot.
At meeting spot:
I was waiting for like 15 minutes now and getting agitated then this other girl comes (who is now with my best friend)(But I fooled around with her for some time) so she got out of her mums car and we just stood there talking and laughing a bit ... then my best friend walked across and said I'll be right back (he went and got some wheed ... ) so then this girl calls me and said I'm VERY sorry I'm late but i'll be even later since AI forgot my keys, I kept very cool and smoothe telling her it was ''aight''
... so then 15 minutes later she came to the spot also and I was talking a bit (I do this thing with my hands what most women like when I talk) so I did it again and she kinda copied me and smiled (was a good thing imo but okay let's move on) HERE I MADE MY FIRST MISTAKE: I kinda ignored her and walked to the place where we got our smokey and met up with my best friend.
Let me explain something about him: He is the type of guy who needs to piss off other people in front of girls to get their attention.
so yea I made the wrong turn and he immediately started moaning and swearing at me, since I am a mature and easy going dude I just ignored it and went on.
at the home of a also good friend of mine where he was already relaxing with his chick we rolled our ciggy's and the 2 girls sat there on the couch with my friend and his chick. we got a Playstation form one of our friends and started gaming SECOND MISTAKE: never game with friends when a chick is with you! I tottally concentrated on the game and actually FORGOT the girl T.T.
then it was smokey time we got up and into the backyard to smoke, the girls followed us and my best friend (read explenation) threw some irritating comments on me again. then I did it back and he was like ... dude were mates come on dont be such a ***** to me every time ... so yea ... I relaxed and /cared the whole thing again.
we sat back totally high on the ganja and laughed a bit ... then it was time for my best friends girl to leave, they went to the hallway and could almost hear the sound of them kissing... some minutes after that my friend started hurling irritating comments at me again, but now the girlfriend of my other friend started to say that he needs to shut up because he ain't funny at all.
THIS ACTUALLY HURT ME IN MY STOMACH: the girl I like started giggling at HIS jokes ... even on the jokes he made about me! ... for some moments I almost stood up and ripped open his frickin neck! but it just wasn't worth it.
then it was time for the girl to leave also and went to the hallway, I said goodbye like it was all over and could see myself working my ass off in the gym to forget about her ... suddenly this ''best friend'' of mine said, shouldn't you be going with her? (yes believe it or not, he really is a good guy) so I stood up and went to the hallway also ... BIGGEST MISTAKE OF MY LIFE: the girl actually didnt get her coat and just stood there smiling in that way girls do to let you know: I'm readdy let's have a nice hot and steamy kiss...and WTF I DO!?! I open the ****ing door and dont make eyecontact with her?! she got her coat ... smiled a bit and said yeah ... gaming ... I said"yeah sorry bout that next time we just keep it to the 2 of us ... she said Okay with a smile...I asked if ai should walk her home and she said nah it's not THAT far..
now the day after that I said I was sorry for the night before and asked her if she maybe wanted to hook up with me again she said ... uhmmm yeah we'll see ... that moment tore my heart apart ... a frickin dude like me getting his heart torn apart omfg I thought I would never have problems in love again!?! (i'm 18 btw) in the days after that I talked to her on chat and it's ''OK'' to say the best of it ... half dead conversations of me and her with not knowing what to say ... and even worse I noticed my best mate having very nice conversations with her, lots of fun and laughter ...
I got her to go to swim with us over the next oncomming 2 weeks ...
I would like to know:
How I can resolve the mistakes I made that night:
How I can have these nice convo's with the girl I like so much:
What to say to my best friend:
What to do when we go swimming:
Thanks, I hope the pro's on this site know how to help me.
I never have problems with girls I just like to ''play'' with a little but I noticed I like this girl SO much ... I'm SO afraid of ****ing up ... yes sorry about the long post it's HUGE :woo: but it really get's to my heart...
I hope the creme de la creme of Don Juans can help me here.
THANKS!
PS: I am a VERY good dancer and know allot of different dance styles, would it seem too pushy if I made a tribute for her? letting her see howmuch I love her in the end of the tribute?
since I last visited this site I changed ALLOT.
not to brag but I get told from numorous people EVERY day I look very good and im a pleasant guy to be with.
now my problem: I have been enjoying the women attention for 3-4 months (you know ... foolin around a little) and just at the time I thought I couldn't fall in love anymore and would fool around for the rest of my life and loving it just as the way it is ... this girl comes, 2 years younger then me VERY hot and VERY friendly.
I saw this girl on a ... well not dating site ... but you can meet other people, we chatted some and got eachothers addie ... talked some and I asked her to hang out with me and some mates of mine (also girls among them) so yea... I told her to meet me at a meeting spot.
At meeting spot:
I was waiting for like 15 minutes now and getting agitated then this other girl comes (who is now with my best friend)(But I fooled around with her for some time) so she got out of her mums car and we just stood there talking and laughing a bit ... then my best friend walked across and said I'll be right back (he went and got some wheed ... ) so then this girl calls me and said I'm VERY sorry I'm late but i'll be even later since AI forgot my keys, I kept very cool and smoothe telling her it was ''aight''
... so then 15 minutes later she came to the spot also and I was talking a bit (I do this thing with my hands what most women like when I talk) so I did it again and she kinda copied me and smiled (was a good thing imo but okay let's move on) HERE I MADE MY FIRST MISTAKE: I kinda ignored her and walked to the place where we got our smokey and met up with my best friend. Let me explain something about him: He is the type of guy who needs to piss off other people in front of girls to get their attention.
so yea I made the wrong turn and he immediately started moaning and swearing at me, since I am a mature and easy going dude I just ignored it and went on.
at the home of a also good friend of mine where he was already relaxing with his chick we rolled our ciggy's and the 2 girls sat there on the couch with my friend and his chick. we got a Playstation form one of our friends and started gaming SECOND MISTAKE: never game with friends when a chick is with you! I tottally concentrated on the game and actually FORGOT the girl T.T.
then it was smokey time we got up and into the backyard to smoke, the girls followed us and my best friend (read explenation) threw some irritating comments on me again. then I did it back and he was like ... dude were mates come on dont be such a ***** to me every time ... so yea ... I relaxed and /cared the whole thing again.
we sat back totally high on the ganja and laughed a bit ... then it was time for my best friends girl to leave, they went to the hallway and could almost hear the sound of them kissing... some minutes after that my friend started hurling irritating comments at me again, but now the girlfriend of my other friend started to say that he needs to shut up because he ain't funny at all.
THIS ACTUALLY HURT ME IN MY STOMACH: the girl I like started giggling at HIS jokes ... even on the jokes he made about me! ... for some moments I almost stood up and ripped open his frickin neck! but it just wasn't worth it.
then it was time for the girl to leave also and went to the hallway, I said goodbye like it was all over and could see myself working my ass off in the gym to forget about her ... suddenly this ''best friend'' of mine said, shouldn't you be going with her?
(yes believe it or not, he really is a good guy) so I stood up and went to the hallway also ... BIGGEST MISTAKE OF MY LIFE: the girl actually didnt get her coat and just stood there smiling in that way girls do to let you know: I'm readdy let's have a nice hot and steamy kiss...and WTF I DO!?! I open the ****ing door and dont make eyecontact with her?! she got her coat ... smiled a bit and said yeah ... gaming ... I said"yeah sorry bout that next time we just keep it to the 2 of us ... she said Okay with a smile...I asked if ai should walk her home and she said nah it's not THAT far..now the day after that I said I was sorry for the night before and asked her if she maybe wanted to hook up with me again she said ... uhmmm yeah we'll see ... that moment tore my heart apart ... a frickin dude like me getting his heart torn apart omfg I thought I would never have problems in love again!?! (i'm 18 btw) in the days after that I talked to her on chat and it's ''OK'' to say the best of it ... half dead conversations of me and her with not knowing what to say ... and even worse I noticed my best mate having very nice conversations with her, lots of fun and laughter ...
I got her to go to swim with us over the next oncomming 2 weeks ...
I would like to know:
How I can resolve the mistakes I made that night:
How I can have these nice convo's with the girl I like so much:
What to say to my best friend:
What to do when we go swimming:
Thanks, I hope the pro's on this site know how to help me.
I never have problems with girls I just like to ''play'' with a little but I noticed I like this girl SO much ... I'm SO afraid of ****ing up ... yes sorry about the long post it's HUGE :woo: but it really get's to my heart...
I hope the creme de la creme of Don Juans can help me here.
THANKS!
PS: I am a VERY good dancer and know allot of different dance styles, would it seem too pushy if I made a tribute for her? letting her see howmuch I love her in the end of the tribute?