"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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This fvcking sucks this is the only way i get girls

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ok so let me start off by saying i get complimented on my looks. chicks at bars come up and say your really cute, hey do i know you from somewhere etc. I am also shy at times and other times im not. But it seems that when i wanna talk to a girl that i am attracted too it doesnt go anywhere. the only time it goes somewhere is if at first i totally ignore them on purpose and act as if they dont exist even though i wanna talk to them. The girls ive gotten always say the same sh!t. "You are so ****y/stuck up why dont you talk to me?" I get labeled like this cause im good looking. Then once they say that i getem. So i guess my game plan is ignore every girl i would like to fvck and pick and chose the ones that ask me why i dont talk to them. this kinda sucks.
like tonight i went out to the bar and met up some friends. there was this real cute girl with my friend. but she gets hit on a lot i think. we were standing there and some dude was stalking her or something. my friend was like i think u need to hold her to keep that dude away. she then says umm no thanks im fine. so as i was saying bye to my friends she was standing right by them and i didnt even say bye to her just ignored her on purpose. Its weird but ive been most successful when i totally ignored a girl even when ive never met them. kind of sucks it has to be that way
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Since the premise of your thread is based on your looks - show us a pic, pretty boy!!!
 

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matt, i am kind of the same way. For ex. a girl will come sit next to me, and i notice her creaping closer and closer, and I just ignore them. Then, finally I talk to them after they can't take it anymore. When I come on to them too strong it doesn't seem to work out. Ignore is how I do it too.
 

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Okay, no.

Don't do this, stop doing this.

There's a reason why chicks come to you when you ignore them, but IGNORING THEM is not why. Lol.

Sexual attitude, and sexual flow. See, we all have it boys, some just don't understand it nor know how to turn it on and off. Through trial and error I have found that it's a sexual imagination, a place in my mind that I turn on, and it flows and creates ulimate connections between me and just about every woman.

A chick will come up to you and get you to chat her up, because somehow you were displaying your sexual flow. You were in it, you probably just didn't know it. Then, because you don't understand how to STAY in it, when you started talking, you lost your sexual flow, that's why the chick left.

Read Gunwitch, he helped me personally. Sexual state is all it is guys. Seriiously, there's nothign else. You have to learn how to stay in that mindset, and allow it to take you over. You will become a natural seducer, and soon, guys like God of Getting Laid will make "theories" about you lol. He'll be studying your behavior with chicks and come and make threads and say, "Those guys got laid becaue they had great looks, I seen it!" Lol, how wrong is that guy? I mean seriously, what planet does this guy live on?

But anyway, Gunwitch method please.
 

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MattS said:
ok so let me start off by saying i get complimented on my looks. chicks at bars come up and say your really cute, hey do i know you from somewhere etc. I am also shy at times and other times im not. But it seems that when i wanna talk to a girl that i am attracted too it doesnt go anywhere. the only time it goes somewhere is if at first i totally ignore them on purpose and act as if they dont exist even though i wanna talk to them. The girls ive gotten always say the same sh!t. "You are so ****y/stuck up why dont you talk to me?" I get labeled like this cause im good looking. Then once they say that i getem. So i guess my game plan is ignore every girl i would like to fvck and pick and chose the ones that ask me why i dont talk to them. this kinda sucks.
like tonight i went out to the bar and met up some friends. there was this real cute girl with my friend. but she gets hit on a lot i think. we were standing there and some dude was stalking her or something. my friend was like i think u need to hold her to keep that dude away. she then says umm no thanks im fine. so as i was saying bye to my friends she was standing right by them and i didnt even say bye to her just ignored her on purpose. Its weird but ive been most successful when i totally ignored a girl even when ive never met them. kind of sucks it has to be that way
Someone posted last week that they use cocaine to sarge. You're not doing too bad.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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I'm smelling another "Looks Doesn't Matter As Much As You Think" thread...
 

Babnik

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MattS said:
ok so let me start off by saying i get complimented on my looks. chicks at bars come up and say your really cute, hey do i know you from somewhere etc. I am also shy at times and other times im not. But it seems that when i wanna talk to a girl that i am attracted too it doesnt go anywhere. the only time it goes somewhere is if at first i totally ignore them on purpose and act as if they dont exist even though i wanna talk to them. The girls ive gotten always say the same sh!t. "You are so ****y/stuck up why dont you talk to me?" I get labeled like this cause im good looking. Then once they say that i getem. So i guess my game plan is ignore every girl i would like to fvck and pick and chose the ones that ask me why i dont talk to them. this kinda sucks.
like tonight i went out to the bar and met up some friends. there was this real cute girl with my friend. but she gets hit on a lot i think. we were standing there and some dude was stalking her or something. my friend was like i think u need to hold her to keep that dude away. she then says umm no thanks im fine. so as i was saying bye to my friends she was standing right by them and i didnt even say bye to her just ignored her on purpose. Its weird but ive been most successful when i totally ignored a girl even when ive never met them. kind of sucks it has to be that way
And once they come up to you, do they not lose interest if you show them interest?

It seems like they are attention wh0res and even if they do come up and start talking, and you talk back - they lose interest...

Or maybe they find your personality real attractive once you start talking.
 

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It's becuase looks don't mean sh!t when women today only ask for a GOOD fukc :kick:
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
I'm smelling another "Looks Doesn't Matter As Much As You Think" thread...
... :crackup: ...
 

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persiangino said:
It's becuase looks don't mean sh!t when women today only ask for a GOOD fukc :kick:
Why do you bother to troll the site typing this type of crap, hot babes prefer to fvck hot guys, any idiot knows that. :mad:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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f uckin a s s pretty boy n iggga mofo

Last Man Standing said:
Since the premise of your thread is based on your looks - show us a pic, pretty boy!!!
Yeah bro! pics!
 
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