this friend

[_sideways_]

So a female friend of mine asked to go jogging with me cuz i turned my whole physique around. I said sure, but just keep up.

Fat forward...shes married, her man is gone on business.

It startrd that we would end our morning runs at an outside cafe. Super nice you know...just talking, enjoying ourselves.

Then she would invite me to go out to eat. Super nice as well...she always paid and drove.

Then she would cook for me at her place and watch a movie.

All this time i just behaved like a friend. Then shes dropping me off one night and we just sit there in the car talking. Shes eye fvcking me right so im like wait a minute. You have a husband and i know ur not that kind of girl. This is in my head. Cuz i mean, it took her 3 months for her to get the hots for me...so i was taken aback.

She then asks how many girls ive slept with.
Its none of her business so i casually dismiss the question and change topics.

So what does how many girls have you slept with translates to?

 

[cfdagola]

it translates into a train wreak waiting to happen

 

[Tictac]

Doing married women is for chumps.

 

[mangotot]

Is he is spending money on you, cooking for you and **** you got a great friend. Don't look at her as a **** buddy. If you are going to **** someone you do it within the first 1 to 3 meets. Its been months and you have not done the business. If she ever eye fuc*s you, you need to have the talk. Talk to let her know you are not interested and that she is a married woman.

 

[Bingo-Player]

it means she wants to know if your the kind of guy that don't give a fvck about marriage or relationships and will you fvck her and keep your mouth shut

 

[No.Danny]

All of y'all lowkey gay. Don't even lie!!
:crackup:

 

[_sideways_]

it means she wants to know if your the kind of guy that don't give a fvck about marriage or relationships and will you fvck her and keep your mouth shut

How did you infer that?!

How could i have missed this...smh

 

[Hmm]

DO let us know when you bang here OP.

Keep us updated.

 

[Starfvcks 64]

If she's buying you stuff keep her around and see how much more you can get from her. There is a good chance she has no intention of actually hooking up with you but wants to see you try. She wants that validation.
I just have a feeling that is the case with her.

 

[_sideways_]

I mean...if i tell her that i like her eye make up and make up in general, she will wear it the next days...

So yea maybe all girls want validation...but i havent made a move cuz i honestly didnt think about it until she would bring me food at my work. On a saturday lol...

Shes the best but yea married, and its a nice change of pace having a cool girl around.

Maybe im devaluating myself too...like i coukd have been getting some but i dont think im that hot ....

She never compliments my looks eventhough everyone has been cuz i seriously put in gym time so im all smiles lol

 

[Starfvcks 64]

I have similar situations a lot with girls I work with. They arent married, but they are my coworkers so I won't hookup with them. I let them do stuff for me and make my life easier, and I know that they'll be fine as long as they still want me. Being wanted means having power, and power is something I don't have enough of.

Sometimes hooking up with a girl actually makes you lose power depending on the circumstances. Right now you have this girl working to make you interested in her, and it doesn't matter what her "end goal" is. What matters is that you continue to benefit from it as long as you can.

 

[_sideways_]

Yea i hear ya...i kinda always have them around...

But what made me write this.post is that she asked how many girls ive been with...like shes interested or making me think....
But its a trap question lol