This ever happen to you guys?

[RandomGuy]

She gives you all the buying signals.....acts interested....AND gives you her number even though you didn't ask for it!

but when you go and call her, she doesn't pick up.

Hella weird. I tried calling her 3 times already...always get the answering machine (and no I didn't call her right away, i waited 4 days, and called)

Should i leave msg now?

 

[D4H]

NEXT

 

[CLOONEY]

Originally posted by RandomGuy


Should i leave msg now?

hmmmmmm, probably a good idea considering she may be busy and not have been home when you called. Not uncommon. How about leaving a message............she may call you when she gets in. Otherwise she wouldnt even have known you called.

 

[NINJA PIMP]

Dear God!

This is not a nuclear meltdown.

LEAVE A MESSAGE!

What do you have to lose? Worst case scenario..she doesn´t call back!

Oh my Lord!!!!!!
EVERYONE! To the fallout shelter!!

btw, keep the message very brief

"Hi this is Mr. DJ, that devilishly handsome lad you met at blablabla. I am doing (something wild) this weekend and its going to be a blast. We should totally hang! You can reach me at 123.456.7890. ciao!"

 

[RandomGuy]

I did not call her 3 times in one day!

I got her number on weds......called sat noon
then sunday noon

then today...wednesday evening.

I usually block my caller ID when i first call any girl, but for some weird reason i forgot to block my ID the first time...so its weird to block it now.

and it's her cell phone, she should have caller ID and at least call me back and asked who called her?

so someone clear this up for me...why do girls do this? and should i leave a msg?

thnx!

 

[ManOMan]

Just as a side note, I NEVER answer my phone unless I know who it is. I have alot of female friends that are the same way (mostly hiding from bill collectors and solicitors)

Just because she doesnt answer her phone doesnt mean she isnt interested (she might just not know its you)

 

[NINJA PIMP]

GigaloDJ

I think it is silly to make such a powerplay out of a simple interaction. So what if the ball is in her court? If she is into him she will call, plain and simple. I have done this MANY times and no, they dont always call, but the really interested ones do. Its a nice way to screen em for interest level.

I do agree that the best time to catch them is on a Monday or Tuesday evening.

Just wanted to help randomguy not take this whole thing so seriously. You only set yourself up for failure when you do this.

So there is your answer dude. Call her on Monday. and if shes not there, just leave a message and approach other hotties. The more approaches you do, the less important each one will be to you and the more confident you will come across.

Chicks love the "i dont give a fvck" mentality. Makes em wet!

 

[RandomGuy]

Thnx for the replies everyone!
and I did read your reply GigaloDJ, thnx...I think I am going to call her next monday.

I totally agree with you Gigalo, I don't usually call girls on weekends...unless i am sure she has HIGH interest level, and even then I never intended to ask her out that Saturday (was planning on asking her out for Monday). She
**Seem** to have high interest level in this case, that's why I called on Saturday. I guess i was wrong.

We have same class on wednesday, and I didn't see her show up today for a quiz that's why i called her today. I was gonna say something like I have all the answers to the quiz if she wanted to make up the quiz. If she wanted it, she would have to do me some sex favors for it

oh well, I don't really care about this girl, I am pursuing 2 other ones, but things like this intrigue me you know?

 

[bp1974]

This is not rocket science.

- You get a girl's number

- You call her when you feel like it

- If she answers, you talk to her and set up a date

- If she doesn't, you leave your name and number and hang up

- If she's interested, she'll call you back