This could be the reason women want to be treated badly

[Pumax]

La maggior parte delle donne vuole ragazzi simpatici, ma non deboli. Gli uomini che conoscono la differenza se la caveranno bene con le donne.

How do you prove you're not weak?
That's the point.

Women prefer an arrogant man to a "weak" one.
That's why they end up with 4ssh0les.

they

men or women?

He's the primary caregiver.

Good point. she could grow up with her grandparents.

" high smv" men

Yes that's the scenario of when He is wealthy or She depend on him in some way

because if you are a nice guy and have boundaries, then you will not pass the self defense system that the ego has created to prevent feeling hurt

So you're saying they're acting appropriately by not fitting into the frame of these types of women?

Yes this is true. True emotional intimacy is scary to avoident damaged women. They rather be objectified. Objectification is not true intimacy. Its shallow. Its safe and predictable.

This might pass like something of no relevance, but it's the most interesting thing I've read in a while.
Would you mind to do some example in real life of something like that?

Also I found something interesting
https://www.reddit.com/r/sentimentalITA/comments/1vwhxns
So how many of you guys are thinking this woman is reporting domestic violence rather than using social media to confort her during those "Intense" emotions?

I'm pretty sure after one year from that, she "has fixed" him.

 

[zekko]

I believe we have it backwards. Women dont necessarily want to be treated badly. Its just that they accept the bad behavior from " high smv" men. Or what they consider high smv.

Its like when women say men like bytches. No we dont like bytches. Its just that we take bad behavior from hot bytches because they are hot.

Yeah, we DEFINITELY do not like bytches, that is a MAJOR turnoff.

The only caveat to what you're saying is that women are attracted to men who can be kind of scary or dangerous, because she wants to know he can protect her. If he's a complete milquetoast, he's no protection.

When I was a young lad, it was still in the days when a lot of women had to rely on their man to support them. So it was much more common for women to put up with abuse from their husbands because they needed a place to live. An unpleasant truth, but that's the way it was back then. Those women didn't want to be abused, but they often put up with it in exchange for support.

 

[Bigpapa]

How do you prove you're not weak?
That's the point.

Women prefer an arrogant man to a "weak" one.
That's why they end up with 4ssh0les.

You show that you are not weak by having healthy boundaries and sticking to them. Women will always test them


women are attracted to a$$holes because they focus on getting laid + don’t try to impress them ( this signals low value ) + they have boundaries ( not necessarily healthy )

all in all, is complicated to not be a weak man but not impossible