Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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This chick pretty or not?

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http://new.photos.yahoo.com/honeyangel1002004/

You can double click on photos to get a bigger version, and if you have yahoo ID it lets you download a very nice resolution.

Simple question, is this chick pretty or not? I cant decide here.

She says shes 35. I find her on myspace, she had picture of someone else there, someone prettier, told me thats her friend, and she has her pic up because she gets harrased. Originally from Taxes, came to Miami a month ago, lives in a shelter. Does some work for carnivals and orange bowl. Basically I thought Ill be having 2 hot blondes over for new years, turns out there is only her. So Im thinking, is it worth it or not? Is she pretty or not, pictures kinda lie. Give me advice. If you cant get the pics to show, let me know, Ill post them and show off here.
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I'd hate to see some girl who's a real person not get a man because i dissed on her. What do you think? There's your answer.
 

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Warning Flags

Ok.. am I the only one not seeing the red flags????!?!

1) She lives in a shelter?!? Dude, nobody ever brags about banging shelter chicks.

2) She's a CARNI!!!

3) Did you not see the wedding band in the photos?
 

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Based on picture Im devided between #6 and a junkie. Take a look at the pics, does she look like junkie?

In any case, Im also cautious because she has a fake picture up, lives in a shelter, and basically I dont really know her. Be the beholder for a moment and let me know what you think. Is she slim and slender? Hot or not? Give me a babe number. Based on face does she look like a crack addict? Look closely. Is she married?
 

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Ummm, in short....she's fugly. But, nothing wrong with getting some practice on interacting with a chick in.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Well... let me put it this way:

I have to go to store and buy some cleaning supplies because I just puked all over my keyboard.

From the pictures *I* saw this is a no go. Then again, i don't know how fugly you are
 

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banGbro said:
[Simple question, is this chick pretty or not? I cant decide here
If she would pass me by on the street, I wouldn't have turned my head.

banGbro said:
She says shes 35.
She looks like she is 42. Must had a rough life.

banGbro said:
lives in a shelter
A shelter for what? abused women? or a homeless shelter? Either way any woman who lives in a shelter is disqualifed in my book.

banGbro said:
is it worth it or not? Is she pretty or not, pictures kinda lie. Give me advice.
She is not even pretty and she seems like she got alot of baggage, I wouldn't touch her.
 
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She is a He - that;s a man --- transvestite!

The profile photo does not look like the others --- she probably is taking "Meth" - aged! Probably has bad teeth - woman usually show their teeth!
 

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wtf was that??? u must be posting this as some sort of joke. if not i would advise you to go gay. seriously, i would much rather touch or kiss an attractive man than that. come to think of it, you sure that isn't a man? teeth...people need them.

i swear, i could drop some of you guys in eastern ukraine and you would still end up with a toothless babushka.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ahh hell, i took the troll bait. Guys, i think we've been had.
 

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Ok, so I got an idea shes not someone to envite to my new years party. :( I thought Id be banging two hot blondes. I had an idea of that pic in her profile in my head, lol.

Shell text me tonight. Whats a proper DJ way to tell her there is no party? Maybe Ill even ask her about that pic of her friend on her profile, whats her name and if she can come.
 

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"Well from your profile I figured you would be attractive. But you lied, and I don't really see any future for us here."

If she replies with ANYTHING this is what you say:

"I only talk to the women I am interested in ****ing. Good bye"

the end.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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even that Fat chick that that guy posted thinks ur chick is ugly bro
 
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A tip-off that something is wrong - she distorts her face so that you don't see the real her and the pic is from 5 years ago!
 

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Is this a fvcking joke? And sorry if it's not, there are so many trolls these days... I just don't know anymore.....

Personally, I'd rather rip out half my teeth with a mechanical wrench than sleep with her. But it's all about perspective my man, which is precisely why I hate it when guys ask ME if they should do a chick -- I mean how the frick I am supposed to know???? it's all personal. You decide.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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