"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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This chick LICKED me last night after giving me her number

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I have to agree with BuckWildNYC on this one. Her attraction was raised by your behavior/way of talking to her prior to the date. I don't think she is/was a headcase just one of those rare girls who is looking for a challenge, which is what she thought she saw in you. She challenged you by saying, "Why are you touching me?" You should remember to keep up the challenge by saying something light and funny. I suspect she gave you other such tests(chances to be funny and a challenge) and you were just too serious, and thusly didn't recognize them.. Maybe because you thought about having sex with her and that clouded your judgement. Its like my friend John Basedow says "When you can control your body, anything is possible" Just something a wise DJ told me, "Anyone can initially attract a girl, the real quest is keeping her attracted"
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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triumvirate, BuckwildNYC,

I think you guys are spot on! I should have carried on with the same style. To be honest, wanting to have sex with her DID cloud my judgement, and I really thought I had done enough to attract her with the texts, so all I needed was to go kino and take her home.

Well, it has at least been a good learning experience and I feel it is probably more valuable than sex with her.

I'm gonna let it rest for a bit, then I'll text her in a couple of weeks, and get all bossy and ****y with her again. Who knows! I've got nothing to lose!

I'm out again this Friday, so I'm gonna make sure I have a damn good FR/LR to post here just to make my self feel better! :p
 
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- Why did you touch me?
*I wanted to know if touching you feels as good as touching myself

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