"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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This chick LICKED me last night after giving me her number

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I have to agree with BuckWildNYC on this one. Her attraction was raised by your behavior/way of talking to her prior to the date. I don't think she is/was a headcase just one of those rare girls who is looking for a challenge, which is what she thought she saw in you. She challenged you by saying, "Why are you touching me?" You should remember to keep up the challenge by saying something light and funny. I suspect she gave you other such tests(chances to be funny and a challenge) and you were just too serious, and thusly didn't recognize them.. Maybe because you thought about having sex with her and that clouded your judgement. Its like my friend John Basedow says "When you can control your body, anything is possible" Just something a wise DJ told me, "Anyone can initially attract a girl, the real quest is keeping her attracted"
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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triumvirate, BuckwildNYC,

I think you guys are spot on! I should have carried on with the same style. To be honest, wanting to have sex with her DID cloud my judgement, and I really thought I had done enough to attract her with the texts, so all I needed was to go kino and take her home.

Well, it has at least been a good learning experience and I feel it is probably more valuable than sex with her.

I'm gonna let it rest for a bit, then I'll text her in a couple of weeks, and get all bossy and ****y with her again. Who knows! I've got nothing to lose!

I'm out again this Friday, so I'm gonna make sure I have a damn good FR/LR to post here just to make my self feel better! :p
 
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- Why did you touch me?
*I wanted to know if touching you feels as good as touching myself

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