SgtSplacker
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
This can't be real
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Big Nuts
Senior Don Juan
This is a man that should clearly kill himself as a disgrace to his barbarian ancestors.
Married Buried
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This is what women are striving to be in America. They want to be the leader and have a man faithful to them while they go and bang the town.
SgtSplacker
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It's hard to read lol
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
No, seriously, if you find yourself in that situation (that you agreed to initially), just kill yourself. Just, just kill yourself.
Lotus Effect
Master Don Juan
I more than often am very thankfull for what happened to my relationship that brought me here, and all the stupid things I've done to get back with her at such (Not that much) young age, and with really, zero strings attached.
I've learned the hard way, as almost everyone in here, and at least now I know that this kind of sh*t will NEVER happen in my life. Ever!
This guy is obviously a clueless guy that ended up with the first girl who he ever had a relationship. With a strike of luck he might eventually get it, as we all did. Sadly for him, that one is a goner!
Anyway, sad sad story! Almost unbearable to read!
I've learned the hard way, as almost everyone in here, and at least now I know that this kind of sh*t will NEVER happen in my life. Ever!
This guy is obviously a clueless guy that ended up with the first girl who he ever had a relationship. With a strike of luck he might eventually get it, as we all did. Sadly for him, that one is a goner!
Anyway, sad sad story! Almost unbearable to read!