"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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This board makes me sad

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Okay, I know it's been said before - but WHAT THE HE*L is going on here? :confused:

I'm not online that often, but once in a while i login @ Sosuave.net to see if something interesting is going on, and what do I find?


"meet girl, text, no reply, what now?"

"Hey, I missed a chance to kiss her and now I feel screwed. "

"All the good girls are taken, why bother? "

"What are differences in macking white girl or asian girl? "

"what does this girl see in this guy??? "



And hey, nothing personal to the people that created these threads, but really - why do you bother so much? You worry about what to say, what to do, how to handle this, how to handle that, when to approach, pickup lines, differences, excuses, explanations, etc. etc. etc.

How come?

Of course this board is created in order to meet, talk, ask questions and answer those - but seriously - if you're all so Don Juan, why don't you just 1) go out, 2) try things out, 3) come back once in a while - instead of staying up every night infront of sosuave.net reading, taking notes, practice conversations infront of the mirror and fear real life.

But I need more practice!

You need to wake up! Read something really motivating which isn't about techniques, lines or seduction science. Go out and
look for OPPORTUNITIES wherever you go and whatever you do. And really - you don't need to go out and run approaches like it's a task you're doing for 30 minutes every day. It's not like working out. It should be natural! Talk to people when you're waiting for the train, buss or in the parking lot - in the grocery store, shopping mall or corner shop. Everywhere! Smile at people on your way to school or work. Joke around with your friends - girls and guys. Talk to everyone at work and school. Teachers, friends, girls, guys, old people, young people.

And you don't have to run lines or techniques.

C'mon! It's not that hard -

Just try to stay off this board as much as possible. I'll help you, a lot.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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heh, I wonder how many chaps out there actually spend more time on these boards, than actually dating and interacting with girls... hmm...
 
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