"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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this biyatch trying or did punk me

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story ......

3 months made my intentions clear, make no mistake !

she calls and leaves me a message telling me she would have called me back but her boyfriend was there and I was welcome to call her later if I wanted to .... I did not get the voice mail untill tonight and she emailed me to make sure to let me know she was sorry about cutting the convo short last night and telling me she left a message .....

I got the voice mail and called her

me ....why did you not tell me you had a boyfriend
her .... because you never asked
me .... I have been honest of my intentions and you have not
her .... is there anything else you want to say about this
me .....what else is there to say
her .... I dunno
me .....well we're getting ready to go out so if you want to discuss this
further you can call me
me ...... no you can call me if you want to discuss this further
her ...... take care and then hangs up on me before I could say bye ...not
that I would have


my take she led me on and was dishonest and does not even deserve friendship ....so I figure no more contact for good .....

anyone been in this situation before or have an idea of the game she's running ....and will ignoring her be the best revenge >?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Metro3pilot said:
my take she led me on and was dishonest and does not even deserve friendship ....so I figure no more contact for good .....
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Yes you are right bro, she is totally trying to play you. So far you have done everything right. Don't change a thing. No more contact, why would you want anything to do with a women who had a b/f and was leading on another guy not once or twice, but for 3 months.

Metro3pilot said:
anyone been in this situation before or have an idea of the game she's running ....and will ignoring her be the best revenge >?
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There is no reason to go out for "revenge", however ignoring her is the best medicine you could prescribe her. She's an AW, thats why she told YOU to call her. Just stay away from her, remove yourself from her drama. Be the bigger person and walk away.
 
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Yes.

Think meaningless of her existance.

Move on to the next girl

Eventually u 2 will bumb heads again and by then shell realize what she missed out on.
 
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