this b*tch is pissing me offfff....

[Jair213]

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=194649

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previous post!! some of you might have read it already,,

anyhow today i hit the gym in the morning i come in and this girl is there she says hi i say hi, she scans my card i go in, and i take a buddy with me he is 16 but then she tells him that he has to be 18 to use the 5 day pass that i gave him but she still lets him in she told him not to tell anyone though that she would just let him in for today.. okay cool that passes..

im working out on the leg curl and shes passing me by i glance at her real quick she glances back we make like 2 second eye contact and the bit*ch rolls her eyes on me like really baddddddddddddd... im like wtf????????????

then i go to the squat rack to squat, the squat rack is right infront of the front desk were she is posted greeting customers, as soon as i get there she turns her back the whole time im there like as if shes avoiding its really fuc'ken weird shiiiitttttttttt as ifff am a daaammnnn pestilence to her, as if she freaken hates me as if my presence bothers her.. i know this might sound crazy to yalll but wtf

i feel like we have a ****en bodylanguage relationship or some dumb shiitttt like that... and today i kinda felt a little down then after i felt like that i felt like a ****kken pussssy for even feeling like that...

ugh...

 

[Desdinova]

Are you a woman? Only women should get pissy at 5hit like this. "Like OMG! Like no way! OMG she just threw me a dirty look! Like WHATEVRRRRR!!!!"

If you sincerely don't want this kind of experience, ignore whatever you're interpreting and be friendly to her. Say hello and goodbye. If she ignores you, ignore that and continue to be the most pleasant motherfvcker she's ever interacted with.

If you go through life reading people's body language thinking it's directed 100% on your looks or behavior, you're going to be a miserable SOB.

 

[youngmack]

Dude.... Ignore her... Shes immature thats it dont stoop down to her level..why do you keep complaining about this girl, why does she have such a big effect on you? do you like her? Are you trying to fvck her or something? Why do you let this girl continue to down you if you have no relationship with her or trying to get one? wtf

 

[Jair213]

Dude.... Ignore her... Shes immature thats it dont stoop down to her level..why do you keep complaining about this girl, why does she have such a big effect on you? do you like her? Are you trying to fvck her or something? Why do you let this girl continue to down you if you have no relationship with her or trying to get one? wtf

its none that u mention, but i have never felt bodylanguage from some one like this before, its crazy.. its like i even uncomfortable lol ..

 

[cablecow15]

ugh , I know exactly how you feel , Ive had similar situations with girls , im in the process of completely ignoring them , avoiding eye contact at all costs , picture her as a ugly warted fat chick , the kind you're sick to look at .

sounds like shes trying to place herself above you , so place yourself that much higher , sounds like some stupid ego driven drama crapping looney , i would not even look at her even if i had a question for her , id look at anything but her , dont give her time of day

 

[Jair213]

Are you a woman? Only women should get pissy at 5hit like this. "Like OMG! Like no way! OMG she just threw me a dirty look! Like WHATEVRRRRR!!!!"

If you sincerely don't want this kind of experience, ignore whatever you're interpreting and be friendly to her. Say hello and goodbye. If she ignores you, ignore that and continue to be the most pleasant motherfvcker she's ever interacted with.

If you go through life reading people's body language thinking it's directed 100% on your looks or behavior, you're going to be a miserable SOB.

its not even like that bro, i dont pay attention to her at all, she just gives this dumbbbassss vibe, bodylanguage like ive mentioned before its like this is the first time ive experience this, and i know how to read bodylanguage really good, took a class on it etc, im coool with who ever i talk to at the gym..

 

[Jair213]

ugh , I know exactly how you feel , Ive had similar situations with girls , im in the process of completely ignoring them , avoiding eye contact at all costs , picture her as a ugly warted fat chick , the kind you're sick to look at .

sounds like shes trying to place herself above you , so place yourself that much higher , sounds like some stupid ego driven drama crapping looney , i would not even look at her even if i had a question for her , id look at anything but her , dont give her time of day

why would she even try to place her self above me that doesnt make sense? also before i didnt have a car my dad picked me up a couple of times from the gym before and she would greet him nicely, she would even tell him to sit down so he could wait for me but now i have a car.. she would be really polite to him.

well ive never had this type of crap with anyone before i get a long with everyone beautifully

i didnt look at her at all today, but i caught her looking while i was on the legpress machine i had 9 45's on each side beasting that thing OUT!!

 

[youngmack]

No you dont understand what im saying.....im saying why do you care for what body language she gives you? Its not like you want to date her or like her or something.Shes just someone who works at your gym. No reason for her actions to have any affect on you.... I would understand if you felt this way because you're interested in her or something but your not...

Its like saying some little 4 year old girl comes up to you and rolls her eyes and sticks her tongue out at you... Of course this wouldnt bother you because you dont even know her nor are you interested in her you just simple ignore her... Same thing with this girl, you go in the gym to punish your body then you come out thats it..

 

[Mike32ct]

The eyeroll is probably the strongest "not interested" indicator you can receive.

I think it's incredibly rude for a female to do that, but sadly they do.

It means "No F-ing way buddy. I'm way too high and mighty for you."

I get eyerolls once in a while, but I let it go and move on.

 

[Robert28]

next time you walk in and she says "hi", give HER the eye roll. don't say hi back or acknowledge her though.

 

[Trump]

Dude it sounds like you are in love with this chick. There are probably 20 other single girls at your gym and your focused in on one girl who hasn't said more than 3 sentences to you. The fact that you are even paying attention to her body language means you are concerned about what she thinks.

 

[Jair213]

The eyeroll is probably the strongest "not interested" indicator you can receive.

I think it's incredibly rude for a female to do that, but sadly they do.

It means "No F-ing way buddy. I'm way too high and mighty for you."

I get eyerolls once in a while, but I let it go and move on.

Well that's good, cuz I was never interested neither in any possible way.

I just don't see why she would be like this, its nuts.

 

[Jair213]

Dude it sounds like you are in love with this chick. There are probably 20 other single girls at your gym and your focused in on one girl who hasn't said more than 3 sentences to you. The fact that you are even paying attention to her body language means you are concerned about what she thinks.

How can you say that man? Lol heck no. I don't care about picking up girls at the gym I go.there to workout that's it.
I'm not paying attention its just obvious...

 

[Fly By Night]

She can tell you're a PUA :woo:

Just brush it off man, some women will go into a hyper-defensive mode when they think that you're trying to pick her up. It's funny when you start up a pick up line then just drop it over her head. "Is that a mirror in your pocket, because it's reflecting me away!" (don't actually do that)

 

[youngmack]

WHY ARE YOU WORRYING ABOUT HER BODY LANGUAGE IF YOU'RE NOT INTERESTED IN HER?

-IS SHE YOUR MOM?
-YOUR GIRLFRIEND?
-YOUR **** BUDDY?
Am i the only one that finds a problem with this?

 

[Jair213]

WHY ARE YOU WORRYING ABOUT HER BODY LANGUAGE IF YOU'RE NOT INTERESTED IN HER?

-IS SHE YOUR MOM?
-YOUR GIRLFRIEND?
-YOUR **** BUDDY?
Am i the only one that finds a problem with this?

It just bugs me for the fact that I have short temper/atitude.. and at the same time its the gym. I love the gym.

 

[Jair213]

She can tell you're a PUA :woo:

Just brush it off man, some women will go into a hyper-defensive mode when they think that you're trying to pick her up. It's funny when you start up a pick up line then just drop it over her head. "Is that a mirror in your pocket, because it's reflecting me away!" (don't actually do that)

hell no bro i aint close to being a PUA..

 

[Bossman90]

No interest, move on.

 

[Bossman90]

hell no bro i aint close to being a PUA..

Don't ever claim that you do PU, normal people will think your weird plus its not a title you should be proud of.

 

[DonJuanabe]

If you really don't care about *her* then you shouldn't be posting about it. So, since you do care about her *behavior*, just go ask her: "Hey, I've noticed for the past month you've been checking out my body and pretty much stalking me with your eyes. I'm not sure employees are supposed to be doing that so why are you doing it?" Then she'll say some BS about how she isn't doing that and you are doing it, to which you respond "Look, it isn't as though your snot-nosed behavior is going to get you fired, or is it...?" Or even better, take the manager over to her and have a threesome: "Hey Manager, chica here has been checking out my ass for the last three weeks and it makes me uncomfortable. I come here to work out, and yeah I have the results so it's natural she'd ogle my loins, but I actually have brains and a personality so it makes me feel cheap. You should tell her to either stop doing it or take me out to dinner, her choice."