"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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nakedtwister

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Uhhh, isn't this exactly what the DJ Bible teaches?



I swear, affiliate marketing has ruined the internet as we know it...
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Why should anyone intimidate you?
 

Ever onward

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I think that many guys are intimidated by good looking women because they feel that it is the man's role to MATCH that level of attractiveness.

Think of it this way guys. The women look that good to ATTRACT US. It is not the man's role to match that level of attractiveness. It's the man's role to BE ATTRACTED or not.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Ever onward said:
I think that many guys are intimidated by good looking women because they feel that it is the man's role to MATCH that level of attractiveness.

Think of it this way guys. The women look that good to ATTRACT US. It is not the man's role to match that level of attractiveness. It's the man's role to BE ATTRACTED or not.
I think you are right. I like the idea that someone said about NOT giving women a 1-10 ranking. You simply find her attractive or you don't. This being, you may only see yourself as a 7 and possibly underrating yourself and giving the girl a 9. This automatically puts her in a "higher category" than yourself and you feel unworthy.
 

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The true value or worth that a woman truly, deeply considers is what you carry inside.

How you make her feel.

If you make her feel the way she has always dreamed of....your true worth is priceless.

Strive to first be the man you want to be, then..strive to understand what your woman needs, and give it to her.
 
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