"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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This actually works

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Last night I was at the local watering hole and me and my people were sitting at a table, but then more people came that we knew to sit by us so I took two chairs from another table that was empty. Well, the two people left and I forgot to take the chairs back. Next thing I see is two FINE looking girls standing at the table with no chairs, then I bring them the chairs and say, "Here yall go. I couldn't help but notice these cute damsels in distress standing here. So I thought I, prince charming, would come sweep yall off yall's feet and into these chairs." They laughed, we talked some more, and exchanged contact information.

Then a light bulb went off in my head...

I took the two chairs back to my table and played the waiting game.

Needless to say, two more girls came by (not as good looking, but still pretty boneable). I brought them the two chairs, said the SAME EXACT LINE, and the results were the same. :eek:

This was pretty awesome. Got two more numbers.

I did it again!!!!! SAME RESULT! TWO MORE NUMBERS!
I did it one more time!!!! SAME MOTHER F'N RESULTS! TWO NUMBERS AGAIN!

That's 8 numbers in a span of 3 hours! Had I not gone in dance for the rest of the night, I probably could've gotten more!

Guys! PLEASE TRY THIS NEXT TIME YALL GO OUT! Do the same line and I promise the same results! I will do this game again in the future. I hope it works the same for yall like it did for me.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Thats pretty cool bro. The line is a little cheesy but i can see that working.. .GOOD JOB
 

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I hate to say this,but this actually seem like a good idea. And the fact that this was something you discovered by accident is also cool. This kinda seems Mystery Method-ish.
 

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Igetit! said:
I hate to say this,but this actually seem like a good idea. And the fact that this was something you discovered by accident is also cool. This kinda seems Mystery Method-ish.
Everything that works is a good idea.

To the OP - That's the power of using a script. You have consistency. You can stay one step ahead of your audience. And you can come up with scripts like this on the spot and polish it for reuse.
 

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This is one of the finest techniques I've ever used. I loved using it and I hope some of yall will use it. It was exhilarating! And the fact I discovered this on accident makes it even more awesome!

Yall can't see it now, but I'm giving myself a pat on the back :)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Mate, ditch the silly chair thing and just approach them. You really think they WOULDN'T have given their numbers if you hadn't done the chair switch thing? Of course not.

This just goes to show that belief is probably the most important thing in PU. 95% of the time, if you fully commit, you will be successful.
 

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Furyguy said:
****ing nice dude. Nice experiment and nice report, good opener too lol.

I wish we could see more posts like this.

I love doing little experiments like this. I'm going to try to do more of them and report back here and let you all know how it went down.
 

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Just to give you a bigger picture, I would have invited all of them to hang with me on a Friday night. 1 dude with 6-10 chicks. That's how you play the game.

Approach many chicks during the day. Forget about dates. Get them to be friends with you and hang out with you on Fri Sat nights. Awesome social proof. Good social circle. And a chance to meet some of the finest women in the clubs using your social value.
 

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You never ran into two Joes looking for their chairs? Looks like this table was reserved for chicks only. The waiters didn't see you taking the chairs back either? I am shocked that they could assign guests to a table without chairs.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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sharkybear said:
You never ran into two Joes looking for their chairs? Looks like this table was reserved for chicks only. The waiters didn't see you taking the chairs back either? I am shocked that they could assign guests to a table without chairs.
I've come to think that outside of LA, it's a different world.
 

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sharkybear said:
You never ran into two Joes looking for their chairs? Looks like this table was reserved for chicks only. The waiters didn't see you taking the chairs back either? I am shocked that they could assign guests to a table without chairs.
Nah man, it's just come in and sit down. The bar tender was too busy to notice I stole them.
 
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