This 19 year old girl worships me. Should I hit it

[skinnyguy]

So this 19 year old coed posts stuff on fb about what a great guy I am. I know she doesn't have a bf, and most of her pics are with other girls. She told me she'll be back home from coll for the summer. She's cute, HB 7.5. Half asian half white.

I'm 12 years older than her. Note that this is not like a 50 year old smashing a 38 year old. I really need to think this one through. She's so sweet and innocent even though she's legal it still feels like she's JB.

I think she might have her V Card. She has dated some guys but nothing serious.

I'm scared that if we fvck she'll become incredibly attached and turn BPD on me

 

[CrimsonPanther]

you should see a therapist. i say this with the best intentions.

 

[Jaylan]

Your threads are all over the place OP.

 

[El Payaso]

You need serious help.

 

[JdelaSilviera]

You should of course, she is an adult already. A 19 yo is probably female sexiness peak, so go get it.

 

[Die Hard]

Dude, fvck that puzzy silly! And don't you feel guilty or ashamed about it for one moment!

And if you're not gonna do it coz it is wrong in the eyes of other people, you don't deserve her anyway... This is about her and you, not about all the other people in the world with their "opinions". Fvck them and their opinions...

Imagine her crawling on top of you in your bed tonight. Does that feel wrong or right? It feels fukking GREAT and you know it. And so do those people with their "opinions"... Many of nowaday's popular pornstars start out when they're 18 or 19 yrs old and every guy on the planet watches their movies, wishing it was him having the lead role in the movie...

By all means, go for it man!!


Oh, about your thoughts that she is sweet and innocent and might become incredibly attached to you... Those thoughts are just obstacles your mind is throwing up, stemming from fear of rejection.

It's the same thing as when you want to approach a girl in a bar but just keep standing across from her. Your mind starts overthinking:

"what should I say to her?"
"What if she doesn't like me?"
"What if she already has a boyfriend?"

Your thought about how she might cling to you and turn BPD on you, is of the exact same nature as the thoughts above...

Just go get her, you da man!

 

[Dan08]

Like Jaylan says skinnyguy, your threads are wack right now.

Seems like one minute your preaching DJ Bible like you live it, then the next you're coming out with this?!

Get some help first and foremost fella, I say that with the utmost sincerity.

Second. Forget this girl, it will likely go down exactly as you've called it.
When's she already saying all of this before you've even got to really know each other, f_ck etc. then you can bet as soon as you do it'll go extreme in terms of being clingy, needy etc.

I mean, in her head if she see's you longterm and then you start dating well the next logical step for her is kids, marriage and all that wack.
Don't go there.

 

[Dgwizdal]

Excuses excuses excuses.

Fvck it OP - Be scared of the 19 year old half Asian tite pvssy you've been dreaming about for years. You are scared of pvssy - you said it yourself.

 

[VikingKing]

Hit it for christs sake. Who gives a fvck how much younger she is, there is nothing wrong with a man dating, or fvcking younger women.

 

[GS750]

I'm 33 and I'm dating a 20 year old. I see nothing wrong with it and neither should you. You're both adults. Prime age, no kids, little baggage, no wrinkles, no saggy t*ts, etc.

 

[GotED?]

One Skinny Whacked Baby Girly Yoda in the Crib :crazy: coming up

 

[VikingKing]

Skinny guy its sounds like your trying to self sabotage. People do this often, its quite common.

This is probably the best prospect you've had so far. There are two possible reasons why you are self sabotaging

1. Your afraid of getting in a relationship and having it end up with you being afc. Don't think like that.

2. Your afraid if you pursue it, you will get rejected again and be disappointed.

So don't think this way. Or what ever way that is holding you back.

 

[zekko]

Skinny guy its sounds like your trying to self sabotage. People do this often, its quite common.

You are totally trying to self sabotage.
There isn't a reason in the world not to bang this chick.
If she gets weird afterward, deal with it.

What Die Hard said.

 

[skinnyguy]

you should see a therapist. i say this with the best intentions.

I'm already in therapy lol. Remember I tried to kill myself 5 years ago? I'm just glad I am secure enough with myself to admit my weaknesses. I feel bad for the guys who are deeply flawed yet act like they are the shyt cause it will crash down on them in the future

 

[The_411]

So this 19 year old coed posts stuff on fb about what a great guy I am. I know she doesn't have a bf, and most of her pics are with other girls. She told me she'll be back home from coll for the summer. She's cute, HB 7.5. Half asian half white.

I'm 12 years older than her. Note that this is not like a 50 year old smashing a 38 year old. I really need to think this one through. She's so sweet and innocent even though she's legal it still feels like she's JB.

I think she might have her V Card. She has dated some guys but nothing serious.

I'm scared that if we fvck she'll become incredibly attached and turn BPD on me

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