"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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el torro

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hey my first tip!

ok guys, this is best used in a club or a bar, but be careful.
ive used it twice so far and gotten good results,
it started when i just got into a bar and met with some mates. there was a girl among them whom i like and was always busting on and she seemed to enjoy it. anyway i noticed she had a drink and asked what it was, she offerd me to have a sip, i suddenly got this cheeky urge to down the whole thing, which i did and grinned at her afterwards she deffinetly had the "OMG i dont belive you just did that!" look hahahahaha, it was great, she wanted me to buy her another drink but i was like "im sorry i dont buy women drinks" hahaha, after a while i gave in and bought her a replacement (slap on the wrist) because i felt sorry for her.

but this got me thinking i could actually turn this into a move!

second time was in a club with a girl who was fit as FVCK 9+ and danced latino style great hip movements! anyway, i after some EC i asked her what she was drinking, (probably thinking i was gunna buy her another one) she told me and i asked if i could have a taste, i did, and carryed on, then she caught on to what i was doing, laughed and stopped me. she then told me it was her birthday to which i replied "whateva!" we had a short convo but i didnt do anything about and walked off.

so theres my tip guys, drink her drink its a way of approaching without thinking of some cheesy line, i know it might not be a great tip but i would like to offer something that has worked for me, as this site has offered me so much.

just make sure her boyfriend is not around. or you might have to end up buying him a drink too.

let us know if it works for you.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Sophomakhos

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This at least has some originality about it, and it intrigues me somewhat. Yes, I can see why this could well work. It's novel (how often does it happen to a woman, eh?) and it's extremely ****y and quite amusinng at the same time. Though I'd be careful; if you unwittingly did it to a psycho woman (we've all met them) it could turn quite nasty. But as I say, it's worth a try.
 

Carioca123

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Only do it if your prepared to buy her another in my opinion.

Ive used the "can I have a taste" line a few times, never thought of downing the drink tho, I will however deffinetly do this. I like this tip.
 

Chillisauce

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Only down it if they offer you a sip, this way you kinda have permission. If you down it after asking for a 'sip' then your an @rsehole.

Its like when i was having my last smoke in the pack and this guy asks for a drag.. being a good bloke i let him have one > he takes the cig and crushes it under his foot while saying 'smoking is bad for your health'

Took all my restraint not to break his face.
 
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