"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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thirsty?

el torro

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hey my first tip!

ok guys, this is best used in a club or a bar, but be careful.
ive used it twice so far and gotten good results,
it started when i just got into a bar and met with some mates. there was a girl among them whom i like and was always busting on and she seemed to enjoy it. anyway i noticed she had a drink and asked what it was, she offerd me to have a sip, i suddenly got this cheeky urge to down the whole thing, which i did and grinned at her afterwards she deffinetly had the "OMG i dont belive you just did that!" look hahahahaha, it was great, she wanted me to buy her another drink but i was like "im sorry i dont buy women drinks" hahaha, after a while i gave in and bought her a replacement (slap on the wrist) because i felt sorry for her.

but this got me thinking i could actually turn this into a move!

second time was in a club with a girl who was fit as FVCK 9+ and danced latino style great hip movements! anyway, i after some EC i asked her what she was drinking, (probably thinking i was gunna buy her another one) she told me and i asked if i could have a taste, i did, and carryed on, then she caught on to what i was doing, laughed and stopped me. she then told me it was her birthday to which i replied "whateva!" we had a short convo but i didnt do anything about and walked off.

so theres my tip guys, drink her drink its a way of approaching without thinking of some cheesy line, i know it might not be a great tip but i would like to offer something that has worked for me, as this site has offered me so much.

just make sure her boyfriend is not around. or you might have to end up buying him a drink too.

let us know if it works for you.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Sophomakhos

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This at least has some originality about it, and it intrigues me somewhat. Yes, I can see why this could well work. It's novel (how often does it happen to a woman, eh?) and it's extremely ****y and quite amusinng at the same time. Though I'd be careful; if you unwittingly did it to a psycho woman (we've all met them) it could turn quite nasty. But as I say, it's worth a try.
 

Carioca123

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Only do it if your prepared to buy her another in my opinion.

Ive used the "can I have a taste" line a few times, never thought of downing the drink tho, I will however deffinetly do this. I like this tip.
 

Chillisauce

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Only down it if they offer you a sip, this way you kinda have permission. If you down it after asking for a 'sip' then your an @rsehole.

Its like when i was having my last smoke in the pack and this guy asks for a drag.. being a good bloke i let him have one > he takes the cig and crushes it under his foot while saying 'smoking is bad for your health'

Took all my restraint not to break his face.
 
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