Third Date-Invited her to my house, says she is busy, counters with a day activity.

[Mazer]

I went out with this bish on two dates, drinks at a bar on the first and a byob restaurant on the second and had some appetizers. Kiss closed on both dates, a bit of makoutage at the end of each date. She hasnt offered to pay for anything on both dates. Texted me after every date to say Thank you and she had a great time. I texted her and she doesnt respong until 2-3 hours every single time. Always texts me with something sexual/flirting. I mirror her texting. I asked her if she was free during a week (third date) to get together, told her I will be making chicken on the bbq grill and bring a bottle of wine.

She said she wasnt free that night but she would like to know if I was free on Friday or Saturday to go paddleboarding. She is a personal trainer and is always doing active shyt. Paddleboarding sounds cool but I am not the best swimmer, dont want to drown. I was thinking of countering, telling her I am busy during the day, replace paddleboarding with a night activity instead (not sure what it is yet) and telling her that I will swing by and pick her up at her place.

Not sure if I am headed straight to the friendzone here or what. Give it to me straight.

 

[sazc]

I went out with this bish on two dates, drinks at a bar on the first and a byob restaurant on the second and had some appetizers. Kiss closed on both dates, a bit of makoutage at the end of each date. She hasnt offered to pay for anything on both dates. Texted me after every date to say Thank you and she had a great time. I texted her and she doesnt respong until 2-3 hours every single time. Always texts me with something sexual/flirting. I mirror her texting. I asked her if she was free during a week (third date) to get together, told her I will be making chicken on the bbq grill and bring a bottle of wine.

She said she wasnt free that night but she would like to know if I was free on Friday or Saturday to go paddleboarding. She is a personal trainer and is always doing active shyt. Paddleboarding sounds cool but I am not the best swimmer, dont want to drown. I was thinking of countering, telling her I am busy during the day, replace paddleboarding with a night activity instead (not sure what it is yet) and telling her that I will swing by and pick her up at her place.

Not sure if I am headed straight to the friendzone here or what. Give it to me straight.

you could always counter with paddle boarding around 4 and then dinner. Wear a life jacket, it's actually the smart thing to do.

 

[R.U.G.]

Hmm... Mild interest, but still interest nonetheless. If she didn't counter, that could equate to low interest. I agree with Sazc with a fun, but cheap date. Preferably close to either your place or her's. Any fairs around either your pad or hers? If not, something that would rev up her emotions with excitement. I'd do something a bit more aggressive than paddle boarding. Perhaps jet-skiing ($30 bucks on Groupon), sword class is pretty cool ($10 bucks on Groupon), Cruise around your city ($12 bucks on Groupon), etc. Does she like sports? Groupon tickets to the Mets are 18 bucks for two people, Yankees 40 bucks each before 20% coupon. Obviously, this is for NYC. You would just look in something to do in your city. Cooking class always gets them wet for me. Since, most women nowadays do not seem to know how to cook. I recall the last time I went to a cooking class, and I showed the instructor a thing or two. We had sex that night.

Need to be creative and spontaneous. Don't be the average bro and do not seem needy. Just say, I'll think of something. Meet me at so and so place at 8pm on Saturday. Obviously, find the place first and confirm with her, then order the tickets. If you use Groupon, please make sure you check Google for promo codes to lower the cost of the event. Another good one is a clay sculpting class ($36 bucks on Groupon). Stay away from painting. It's boring and lame; unless she's an artsy type of woman.