Thinking too much about how others think of me

[Humble Young Man]

I always have this trait of always thinking what others think. When I do something that I consider to be stupid and I see others noticing, I just immediately realize that the person who saw it thinks I'm stupid. In simple terms, I care too much of what others think of me.

I noticed that although I've improved myself by being more confident, more outgoing and more funny, I still cannot control myself from caring what others view me. I look for validation and I tried not to, but subconciously I can't.

I think this is a huge road block for me and I really need some help on this issue. When I go to sleep I can't control myself looking what bad things or stupid things I've done that might of ruined my reputation; I believe in myself and yes, I am very outgoing; but I just can't "don't give a f**k of what others think of me."

I am naturally very suspicious and over sensitive about other people. When I get put down by my friends (yea, I think they are joking around), on the outside it looks like it doesn't affect me, but on the inside I feel like sh*t because I can tell that other people is looking at me.


urgent help needed!!

 

[jeffthechef]

just stop...honestly no one cares..sorry but it's true...
if someone thinks you're not attractive..they wont bother to look
if someone does think you're attractive..then what's the problem

we're all sacks of ****, piss, and elements...honestly..
in the end..we'll all end up the same..dead
not to be pessimistic or anything..but that's the truth

what matters is how they see you as a person..not the exterior

 

[It's-Me]

We've all experienced this feeling, more or less. You just have to learn to let go of it... there's no other way.