"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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thinking too much about a girl is counter-productive

john_1234

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once in a while, i'll meet a girl and have a genuine interest in her. what ends up happening is that i'll think about her too much. of course, i never let a girl know early on that "i'm smittten by her." but thinking too much about a girl won't help your chances. how do you guys handle infatuation?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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ScrewIt

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keep yourself busy, it will help keep your mind off her
 

Wiesman44

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Yah its tough. Make sure your very busy or have other girls you are dating or trying to go after.
 

Kings_royalty

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of course, i never let a girl know early on that "i'm smittten by her."

Careful, girls are very good at sensing the 'truth'.

how do you guys handle infatuation?

Talk to more girls, fill your basket up with as many girls as you can carry. That way, you can't focus to much on one girl.
 
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