"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Thinking this girl has "ex"cess baggage

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DJHoolahoop

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hey guys,

well i hung out with this girl this weekend and things appeared to go well, but when i had to leave, some things threw me off. She mentioned she had an ex, but I asked if it was going to be a problem and she said no.

Now I'm not so sure and I'm getting the feeling that he may have more of a part in her life than I thought previously. I'm wondering if I should just go on thinking she was right when she said there's nothing up between them no more or blatantly asking if there is any real potential between me and her atm.

I like this girl and I get the feeling that she likes me and would like the chance to see it go further, but definitely not if she's still involved with her ex. So do I ask about it? and if she says no, should I just tell her that I don't like wasting my time and would rather know now if he'll be a problem or if it's too soon? Or should I be all like "forget about him and move on to me, you wouldn't want to miss out on that would you?" or something similar.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by DJHoolahoop
She mentioned she had an ex
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Shock Horror! :eek:

Hoolahoop why would up and cumming ;) DJ like youself give 2 thoughts about some chicks ex?

If you talk to her about her ex you are acting like her friend.

Originally posted by DJHoolahoop
forget about him and move on to me, you wouldn't want to miss out on that would you?
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That would be acting like her lover :woo:
 
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sometimes women need that extra push to move on from the "trap" of the ex boyfriend.

You need to show her that you are the alpha male and that you have higher value. Before you know it, she wont even remember the chump's name.

Next time you see her, do not mention her ex. If she brings the subject off, change the subject, act like that guy's whole existance is nothing to you.

Read up on NLP. While you are with her, constantly remind her what a good time she is having, teach her to associate those good feelings with your presence.

It's no big deal. Women move on from the ex's all the time. She just needs that extra encouragement.
 
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