"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Thinking of getting a tatoo

ChrizZ

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Hi,

I was thinking of getting me a tatoo on my left leg, one on my right biceps and one on my lower back. I´m not necessarily doing this to attract chicks, but do you think tatoos are an advantage or a disadvantage when it comes to sarging?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Thundercat

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It depends on the type of guy you are and the type of girl you're going after.

Having just a SINGLE tattoo isn't going to hurt you. In fact, tattoos can make you a more interesting guy, maybe even give you a routine if you have a story as to why you got the tattoo.

Having a LOT of tattoos can hurt your chances with some women, though. There's a type of women who absolutely LOVE tattoos. And there are some women who find them a real turn off. So before you get that full sleeve of tats, you may want to take that into consideration.

I've actually used the opener "Hey, I'm thinking of getting a tattoo. Where on my body do you think is a good place to get it?" That one works really well, and you'll find out quick if that turns the girl on or off.

Good luck to you.

Thundercat
 
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