"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Thinking of buying Neil Strauss

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I'm thinking of buying Neil Strauss pick up guide. I read alot of reviews many stating its was a book teaching pick up whilst others said it was more of a story and lacked technique?

What did you think?

IS it worth buying?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Its like $15 ... go read it at a bookstore and if you like it, buy it.


IMO, its hands down the best book you can possibly read.
 

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It's a story about PUAs which have examples of some techniques. There were a couple of nuggets of gold in the book but if you are looking to actually learn something substantial on sarging, I'd look elsewhere unless you have very few skills if any.

It was an entertaining book however. It gives insight to the personalities of the guys most of us believe are gurus. Being a PUA isn't always what it's cracked up to be (unless you write a book about it).
 

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Whats a good book for sarging and learning to be a PUA?

Also a book that goes into depth on techniques such as negging, Demonstrating Value etc etc
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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MasterYoda, I believe what your are looking for is the Venusian Arts Handbook, which was written not only by Mystery, but was a collaborative effort by some of the greatest pickup artists in the world.
 

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why don't you just go to the library and read up in the special interest section, you might have a shot pickin up a cute librarian :D
 

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Originally posted by PRMoon
why don't you just go to the library and read up in the special interest section, you might have a shot pickin up a cute librarian :D
Well I'd rather spend my time asking experienced people that books they have read and what helps them rather than waste time.

Are there any more suggestion on books or videos?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Bro, if you are talking about "The Game", I got the book, its a good read, but its not a guide. It has many routines in it, along with examples of pickups, but it generally talks about how he evolved from AFC to mPUA
 

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Originally posted by PRMoon
why don't you just go to the library and read up in the special interest section, you might have a shot pickin up a cute librarian :D
Well I'd rather spend my time asking experienced people that books they have read and what helps them rather than waste time.

Are there any more suggestion on books or videos?
 

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Originally posted by MasterYoda
Well I'd rather spend my time asking experienced people that books they have read and what helps them rather than waste time.

Are there any more suggestion on books or videos?
Mystery's book and DVDs are the best ive seen so far
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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quote:
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Originally posted by Tornado2
I would never buy a book on how to pick up chicks.
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Buying a book on how to pick up chicks doesn't make you a loser. It simply means that you want to up your game. I was able to pull chicks before I stumbled into the seduction community, but once I realized that there were men who had mastered it and made it into a science, I simply wanted better.

That's like saying "I would never read a book on how to play chess." Its a stupid attitude.
 

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I agree.
 

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I am also interested in this book. seems like a good read. even though all thye techniques are already well known.
 
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