"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Thinking of a new business idea - when you want to do something fresh!

thedol

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Hey guys - when your thinking of what to do next, like what is your calling - what is the thing that you want to pursue as a business.

The first thing you get into - even the second might not be the thing you were wanting to do or you lost interest in it.

For example - I've been doing freelance web/graphic design for like 4 years now and it's good, for some extra pocket money on the side but it's not what I find so much joy in at the same time.

That's one think I still do - I tried to launch a second business idea a few months back which didn't work out so now I'm thinking of my next one.

When I think of ideas = I think what I want to do, my interests and things I know stuff for, what maybe I'm good at and try to put them together to think of an idea or business opportunity.

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For me, I've always had this "gift" where I am good at organizing things for other people. Like be it parties or small gatherings, I'm a good organizer...not necesarrily a host but definetely I can find out alot of things and give people what they want.

Also I'm pretty good when it comes to presenting things - hence the whole web/graphic design business I've been doing for a while

Now I'm trying to think of something I can do or create or even invest in - to build on something. I need something to work on...I have a normal day job where I work as a graphic designer, 9-5 but I need something on the side I can work on and work towards with a goal in mind.

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I was thinking of trying to find some warehouse or even unused building block somewhere which maybe if I can't buy...(I've got like $10k to use for investment money)...then maybe on every Friday or something I can rent and then do it up with sound systems etc and try and get something going. Not a disco but something more unique like a stand up music contest or something for people to enjoy.

I'm mixing with thoughts and ideas because I need to think of something - as mentioned I need a goal

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Any thoughts or tips on this
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Rhoto

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Focus on EXACTLY what you want.

Then concern yourself with -

Legal duties.

Financial duties.

Otherwise, sounds like you have a game plan in your head. Develop it. Profit. Give me free drinks.

But you're going to need more capital than $10k. Find a couple of reliable, 750+ FICO partners OR if you can, take a loan out.
 

saber

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sounds like you may enjoy business managment

growing marijuana is a good continuous project with high earning potential ;)

but seriously...

I have started a few small business and lemme tell you straight up

the key to success in business is managment ability

u know about graphic design but y h0re your skills out when you can h0re other peoples skill...try to establish some serious clientel through advertising and start hiring people on a per project lump sum basis to cover ur azz

you said you like managing...so manage a graphic design company instead of just working at one
 
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